1 year anniversary
09-Nov-2003, 09:55 PM
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1 year anniversary
i need help its mine and the gf 1 year anniversary on dec 7 less than a month i need to know what to get her and most important what to do on that day does anyone have any good ideas r what people have done in the pass to make there girl go wow she isnt a really big out doors person and she is kind of shy any idea
Thanks
Pierre
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Pierre
09-Nov-2003, 10:26 PM
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Originally posted by Brisk20
i'd say maybe get one of your buddies and you and him can have a double dip
that will be one hot surprise
i'd say maybe get one of your buddies and you and him can have a double dip
that will be one hot surprise
ya thats a solid call too... why not mix the two ideas for a greater end product
happy 500 posts brisk
09-Nov-2003, 10:26 PM
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Originally posted by PunkInDrublic
keys to a hotel room and a box of condoms and ky
keys to a hotel room and a box of condoms and ky
Pierre: My best advice to you is treat her like a lady, its not about what you do for her or what you buy but how you treat her.
Maybe surprise her and invite her over for dinner, and you make some nice meal for the 2 of you from scratch, then after dinner rent a nice movie for your 2 to watch. Surprise her with a small gift or something you made yourself, like soemthing special that the 2 of you did together and somethign that reflects what she means to you. Nothing better than giving your girl a gift that reflected on an event you 2 did or experienced together that really meant something to you, and it shows her you really care because you remembered.
thats all the advice I can give to ya man, good luck.
09-Nov-2003, 11:07 PM
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Originally posted by loudsubz
We dont want to know what you do in your spare time Rick, he asked for some advice.
Pierre: My best advice to you is treat her like a lady, its not about what you do for her or what you buy but how you treat her.
Maybe surprise her and invite her over for dinner, and you make some nice meal for the 2 of you from scratch, then after dinner rent a nice movie for your 2 to watch. Surprise her with a small gift or something you made yourself, like soemthing special that the 2 of you did together and somethign that reflects what she means to you. Nothing better than giving your girl a gift that reflected on an event you 2 did or experienced together that really meant something to you, and it shows her you really care because you remembered.
thats all the advice I can give to ya man, good luck.
We dont want to know what you do in your spare time Rick, he asked for some advice.
Pierre: My best advice to you is treat her like a lady, its not about what you do for her or what you buy but how you treat her.
Maybe surprise her and invite her over for dinner, and you make some nice meal for the 2 of you from scratch, then after dinner rent a nice movie for your 2 to watch. Surprise her with a small gift or something you made yourself, like soemthing special that the 2 of you did together and somethign that reflects what she means to you. Nothing better than giving your girl a gift that reflected on an event you 2 did or experienced together that really meant something to you, and it shows her you really care because you remembered.
thats all the advice I can give to ya man, good luck.
you are the king of love.
09-Nov-2003, 11:54 PM
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If your girl doesn't like the outdoors, and she's a shy person, you should just spend the entire day just being with her. Hold her, kiss her, .....( etc )..spend time on her..cherish her..let her know how much you love her. The best kind of day is when it doesn't feel unnatural, over planned or forced.
If you would like a "date" type situation... Do you have any special places that would stir up memories??
As for what to get her, that all depends on her personality. If she's into the materialistic, jewelry..stuff like that...if she's not into that, use your head...try, maybe if you're creative..to make an album of memories...wow..i should shut up soon..im such a mushy romantic lol,..but after a year, i would love for my man to make me something..that way..it showed that he spent time on it . It would make me feel like the most special girl in the world.. for bonus points...a two part gift, jewelry and a home made gift...extra bonus point, if you have time, have a pretty vase sent to her house in the morning and have flowers sent to her at different times of the day..wherever she'll be, if it's school, work, or home. be creative...good luck!!!
If you would like a "date" type situation... Do you have any special places that would stir up memories??
As for what to get her, that all depends on her personality. If she's into the materialistic, jewelry..stuff like that...if she's not into that, use your head...try, maybe if you're creative..to make an album of memories...wow..i should shut up soon..im such a mushy romantic lol,..but after a year, i would love for my man to make me something..that way..it showed that he spent time on it . It would make me feel like the most special girl in the world.. for bonus points...a two part gift, jewelry and a home made gift...extra bonus point, if you have time, have a pretty vase sent to her house in the morning and have flowers sent to her at different times of the day..wherever she'll be, if it's school, work, or home. be creative...good luck!!!
10-Nov-2003, 09:02 AM
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Originally posted by Miss Perfect
If your girl doesn't like the outdoors, and she's a shy person, you should just spend the entire day just being with her. Hold her, kiss her, .....( etc )..spend time on her..cherish her..let her know how much you love her. The best kind of day is when it doesn't feel unnatural, over planned or forced.
If you would like a "date" type situation... Do you have any special places that would stir up memories??
As for what to get her, that all depends on her personality. If she's into the materialistic, jewelry..stuff like that...if she's not into that, use your head...try, maybe if you're creative..to make an album of memories...wow..i should shut up soon..im such a mushy romantic lol,..but after a year, i would love for my man to make me something..that way..it showed that he spent time on it . It would make me feel like the most special girl in the world.. for bonus points...a two part gift, jewelry and a home made gift...extra bonus point, if you have time, have a pretty vase sent to her house in the morning and have flowers sent to her at different times of the day..wherever she'll be, if it's school, work, or home. be creative...good luck!!!
If your girl doesn't like the outdoors, and she's a shy person, you should just spend the entire day just being with her. Hold her, kiss her, .....( etc )..spend time on her..cherish her..let her know how much you love her. The best kind of day is when it doesn't feel unnatural, over planned or forced.
If you would like a "date" type situation... Do you have any special places that would stir up memories??
As for what to get her, that all depends on her personality. If she's into the materialistic, jewelry..stuff like that...if she's not into that, use your head...try, maybe if you're creative..to make an album of memories...wow..i should shut up soon..im such a mushy romantic lol,..but after a year, i would love for my man to make me something..that way..it showed that he spent time on it . It would make me feel like the most special girl in the world.. for bonus points...a two part gift, jewelry and a home made gift...extra bonus point, if you have time, have a pretty vase sent to her house in the morning and have flowers sent to her at different times of the day..wherever she'll be, if it's school, work, or home. be creative...good luck!!!
OK, I'm totally with loudsubz on this... make something (NOT a gift, that's ghay - make dinner). BUT, here is the key... don't make desset, cuz well, guys can't make desset. Find a really top notch place to go for dessert - spending $40-50 on desset will set a romantic mood and give you something to do outside of the house, but still feels intimate. Then you take her to the CN tower, and at the top tell her you are giving her the world
hahaha... that's so corny, I love it! 
And then before she pushes you off the ledge, you give her a gift (something only you can pick cuz you know her best, but if all else fails, jewlery is the default choice). Then off to the hotel where the bed is covered in rose petals like in American Beauty (a surprising # of women find that sexy).
10-Nov-2003, 09:35 AM
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"then breed like crazy after that!"
hahaha WELL PUT I LOVE THAT ...BREED LIKE CRAZY..haha
but yah...
bbarbulo it really depends on the girl....
if u got urself a drama queen....get the jewlery etc. . and dont' spend the day with her cause most likely...haha she'll be like "get away from me freak" but if she'z a nice caring girl, with a good set of morals etc...and really understands the concept of a relationship.......<--hard to explain that most girls don't know what a real relationship is......but anyway if she understands and u both love each other.......Whole Day thing would work wonders!....but make sure u go out doing different things....Make it a fun filled day, with peroidic love breaks..haha or even just driving around doing nothign at all.....brings up amazing things to do...and gives u soo much bonding time....
If all else fails.....BED, T.V., DVD PLAYER, ****.....SEX THE END!
hahaha WELL PUT I LOVE THAT ...BREED LIKE CRAZY..haha
but yah...
bbarbulo it really depends on the girl....
if u got urself a drama queen....get the jewlery etc. . and dont' spend the day with her cause most likely...haha she'll be like "get away from me freak" but if she'z a nice caring girl, with a good set of morals etc...and really understands the concept of a relationship.......<--hard to explain that most girls don't know what a real relationship is......but anyway if she understands and u both love each other.......Whole Day thing would work wonders!....but make sure u go out doing different things....Make it a fun filled day, with peroidic love breaks..haha or even just driving around doing nothign at all.....brings up amazing things to do...and gives u soo much bonding time....
If all else fails.....BED, T.V., DVD PLAYER, ****.....SEX THE END!
10-Nov-2003, 03:44 PM
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You know, love is a two way traffic. It is not always about what the women want, sometimes, it is about what us guys want, too.
Just be selfish for a moment, what do you want to happen on the anniversary? Ask that yourself and see if she will concur to it.
If you have the time, sure you can make little things for her. For one of my ex back when I was in 1st year of University, I made her 1000 stars. You know, using little ribbon, cut a strip and fold it and poke it into the shape of a star. I did 333 in white, 333 in purple, 333 in baby blue and 1 in pink. In that pink one, I wrote some love lines. My hands were ******* sore and it hurted like bitch, but I was crazy then.
But that's doesn't mean if I don't make something myself for my current gf, I don't love her as much as my previous ones. It is just when people grow, you show your love in different ways. Well call me lazy but I ain't gonna sit there and folding stars no more....
So, bottom line is, have a quiet homemade dinner (cause no matter what you do, you gotta eat) and since it will be cold outside, just stay home and enjoy the night. Buy a nice ice wine (2000 is a great year) and enjoy a good movie, or just chat.
Just be selfish for a moment, what do you want to happen on the anniversary? Ask that yourself and see if she will concur to it.
If you have the time, sure you can make little things for her. For one of my ex back when I was in 1st year of University, I made her 1000 stars. You know, using little ribbon, cut a strip and fold it and poke it into the shape of a star. I did 333 in white, 333 in purple, 333 in baby blue and 1 in pink. In that pink one, I wrote some love lines. My hands were ******* sore and it hurted like bitch, but I was crazy then.
But that's doesn't mean if I don't make something myself for my current gf, I don't love her as much as my previous ones. It is just when people grow, you show your love in different ways. Well call me lazy but I ain't gonna sit there and folding stars no more....
So, bottom line is, have a quiet homemade dinner (cause no matter what you do, you gotta eat) and since it will be cold outside, just stay home and enjoy the night. Buy a nice ice wine (2000 is a great year) and enjoy a good movie, or just chat.
10-Nov-2003, 03:53 PM
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Somewhere downtown or something I think there's this place where you can make a custom teddy bear.. like $30-40 depending on what you get but u can dress them up in anything and all sorts a crap.. add that to the gift pile...
anyone know what i'm talkin bout?? saw something about this on city tv once too..
anyone know what i'm talkin bout?? saw something about this on city tv once too..
