Anyone got Good Dating Tips?
13-Feb-2005, 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by CyniKal.Mindset
if u have to come to a civic site for dating tips u have bigger problems on your hands
my 2cents worth
if u have to come to a civic site for dating tips u have bigger problems on your hands
my 2cents worth
the last i checked an alpha omega pimp isn't one that's locked down and proud of it openly on a civic board.
13-Feb-2005, 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by CyniKal.Mindset
locked down?!
locked down?!
well anyway, back to the chase, perhaps you can share some serious pimping wisdom.
13-Feb-2005, 11:25 PM
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If things go well... text message her to tell her you had a good time the next day. There is a stupid unwritten 24 hour rule to calling a girl after a date but girls do not think it is too desperate to say "i had a good time last night. thanks again". Girls dig a guy that shows appreciation for time spent and interest. You don't have to say "maybe we can go out again soon" or anything cause thats a bit desperate sounding... but simply something that says to her "hey, I'm still around if you want me" type deal. Girls flock to that stuff cause it shows you are interested and leaves the invisable "OK" for her to call you. If SHE calls YOU then you are in control cause you have something she wants. That's how girls work. We don't call guys unless we want something. (eg. another date, sex, someone to chill with, money etc etc) Notice this category does NOT include 'friends'. We usually don't call if we just want to be friends. Girls date to find bfs or bedbuddies or whatever NOT friends.
Yea so to sum that all up... text her and wait for her to call you. If she doesn't... she was never interested.
Good Luck.
Yea so to sum that all up... text her and wait for her to call you. If she doesn't... she was never interested.
Good Luck.
13-Feb-2005, 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by mechatune
yes brosef. aren't you in a relationship with surferpink?
well anyway, back to the chase, perhaps you can share some serious pimping wisdom.
yes brosef. aren't you in a relationship with surferpink?
well anyway, back to the chase, perhaps you can share some serious pimping wisdom.
14-Feb-2005, 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by Surfofpink
Matt is NOT locked down.He's my pimp... I work for him. and besides, our relationship is PURELY sexual
Matt is NOT locked down.He's my pimp... I work for him. and besides, our relationship is PURELY sexual
14-Feb-2005, 08:36 AM
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Gatherer's Dating advice...
Don't bother it's a waste of time and money
Don't bother it's a waste of time and money
14-Feb-2005, 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by SpikeyLee
Valentines Day card first. Facial second. Don't mix that up. Girls don't like that coz they can't read as well if you get it in their eye.
You don't necessarily have to order for her. I think that it's something you gotta play by ear though. Is the girl an independent girl or is she the swoony type where her panties will get wet if you show any type of chivalry? If she's the second type then definitely order for her. Hell, chew her food for her if it'll get you into her pants.
Valentines Day card first. Facial second. Don't mix that up. Girls don't like that coz they can't read as well if you get it in their eye.
You don't necessarily have to order for her. I think that it's something you gotta play by ear though. Is the girl an independent girl or is she the swoony type where her panties will get wet if you show any type of chivalry? If she's the second type then definitely order for her. Hell, chew her food for her if it'll get you into her pants.
14-Feb-2005, 12:29 PM
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order for her??? that's a deathwish 
unless she's indecisive... then just order everything she showed interest in... (anything where she asked "have you tried this... or what do you think of??")
unless she's indecisive... then just order everything she showed interest in... (anything where she asked "have you tried this... or what do you think of??")
14-Feb-2005, 12:56 PM
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Just a couple tips:
Act normal, it is more or less be who you are. If you swear a lot, just try to minimize it. If you love to crack dirty jokes, don't tell any of it just yet.
As for ordering food, ask her what she likes then when the waiter comes, tell him: "for the lady, she will have so and so...." first.
Any Valentine gifts should be given after the dinner on a first date. If, for any reason, she does not like the cards or the gift, at least she won't be having the dinner in a bad mood. Anticipation of a potential gift/card also keeps her excited.
I wouldn't expect a kiss, nor would I kiss her. If anything, and if the moment calls for it, a light kiss on the back of her hand or on her cheek at the most.
Call her the next day and say you wish to see her again. If you like her.
Act normal, it is more or less be who you are. If you swear a lot, just try to minimize it. If you love to crack dirty jokes, don't tell any of it just yet.
As for ordering food, ask her what she likes then when the waiter comes, tell him: "for the lady, she will have so and so...." first.
Any Valentine gifts should be given after the dinner on a first date. If, for any reason, she does not like the cards or the gift, at least she won't be having the dinner in a bad mood. Anticipation of a potential gift/card also keeps her excited.
I wouldn't expect a kiss, nor would I kiss her. If anything, and if the moment calls for it, a light kiss on the back of her hand or on her cheek at the most.
Call her the next day and say you wish to see her again. If you like her.
14-Feb-2005, 12:57 PM
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Oh, and if she judges you based on the car you own, I think one date is enough.
14-Feb-2005, 01:34 PM
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Dating Tips....sounds like something boys @mojonation.ca can handle. . .lol
14-Feb-2005, 01:40 PM
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What is IDB?
14-Feb-2005, 01:55 PM
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first off don't take ANY advice form a woman on this subject cause they will turn you into a wussy then reject you...woman say they want the nice guy who is alway's around to serve them...but in reality you will end up in the friends zone 100 % of the time. Don't call her right after, dont' pay for anything, never be too avaiable (you have to make it look like you have your own life), always end the convo first etc...this makes you not a wussy and builds mystery/excitment on her part yada yada that your a man and not a wussy guy friend....not to mention the first date is just getting to know the person so...
14-Feb-2005, 02:18 PM
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^^ lol...that advice made the most sense out of everything i've read so far..hahaa
14-Feb-2005, 03:29 PM
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Originally posted by dingus88
first off don't take ANY advice form a woman on this subject cause they will turn you into a wussy then reject you...woman say they want the nice guy who is alway's around to serve them...but in reality you will end up in the friends zone 100 % of the time. Don't call her right after, dont' pay for anything, never be too avaiable (you have to make it look like you have your own life), always end the convo first etc...this makes you not a wussy and builds mystery/excitment on her part yada yada that your a man and not a wussy guy friend....not to mention the first date is just getting to know the person so...
first off don't take ANY advice form a woman on this subject cause they will turn you into a wussy then reject you...woman say they want the nice guy who is alway's around to serve them...but in reality you will end up in the friends zone 100 % of the time. Don't call her right after, dont' pay for anything, never be too avaiable (you have to make it look like you have your own life), always end the convo first etc...this makes you not a wussy and builds mystery/excitment on her part yada yada that your a man and not a wussy guy friend....not to mention the first date is just getting to know the person so...
14-Feb-2005, 03:59 PM
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just be confident.... that is all... even if you are not... look at me... im' ugly as hell... and i nkwo it but i'm still confident.. i knwo where i stand if a girl don't want me for who i am... too bad she misses out...
and i really dont' think you hsoudl pay for her meal, drinks etc... not on the first date at least......
and if all goes well show her appreciacion by sticking it in her butt! (always use lube and a jimmy)
(the last one is a joke)
and i really dont' think you hsoudl pay for her meal, drinks etc... not on the first date at least......
and if all goes well show her appreciacion by sticking it in her butt! (always use lube and a jimmy)
(the last one is a joke)
14-Feb-2005, 04:03 PM
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yeah BE YOUR SELF
