Casual Friday Gossip Advice
18-Aug-2006, 10:07 AM
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Casual Friday Gossip Advice
Casual Friday here, got a discussion that i'm gonna carry over.
Got a co-worker, male - lets call him Johnathan Doe.
He's going out with a gurl, same age as him, and they're serious.
He's had experience in all regards, if u know what i mean, and he hasn't gone all the way with his current gurl - she wants to wait till after they get married cuz she's afraid of pregnancy, etc.
He tells me that they won't get married for another 2-2.5 years.
He wants to be loyal, but he has friends w/ benefits.
What should he do?
Got a co-worker, male - lets call him Johnathan Doe.
He's going out with a gurl, same age as him, and they're serious.
He's had experience in all regards, if u know what i mean, and he hasn't gone all the way with his current gurl - she wants to wait till after they get married cuz she's afraid of pregnancy, etc.
He tells me that they won't get married for another 2-2.5 years.
He wants to be loyal, but he has friends w/ benefits.
What should he do?
18-Aug-2006, 10:10 AM
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so he considers her marriage material clearly... but he still has needs??
see if she wants to wait till after marriage and he wants to marry her that badly he shouldn't have friends with benefits on the side...
what if they get married and then she doesn't put out enough, will he have friends with benefits on the side then??
either buy a Costco sized tub of K-Y and stock up on some **** for the next 2-2.5 yrs or dump the prude and go date a freak!
see if she wants to wait till after marriage and he wants to marry her that badly he shouldn't have friends with benefits on the side...
what if they get married and then she doesn't put out enough, will he have friends with benefits on the side then??
either buy a Costco sized tub of K-Y and stock up on some **** for the next 2-2.5 yrs or dump the prude and go date a freak!
18-Aug-2006, 10:10 AM
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Is he asking because he wants approval for something he knows is wrong? If he plans on being loyal, he knows what he has to do. If not, break up now and be done with it, because if he thinks that afterwords he can be loyal forget it. Once he sees he can get away with it the first time, what's going to stop him any other time.
18-Aug-2006, 10:21 AM
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see, shes apparently the wifey-material - what sucks is that i know her, which is another story, but she is maad innocent 'n chit.
but he's been used to something all this time u know. i see where he's coming from.
i agree that cheating isn't a good option.
but i agree with him when he says, "i only love ONE gurl"
but he's been used to something all this time u know. i see where he's coming from.
i agree that cheating isn't a good option.
but i agree with him when he says, "i only love ONE gurl"
18-Aug-2006, 10:23 AM
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*werd...
he's pure lies if he says he really loves her... cuz if he did he wouldn't be fvcking other girls... how much do you think that would devastate her if she found out? u don't do that kinda sh|t to someone u love...
he's pure lies if he says he really loves her... cuz if he did he wouldn't be fvcking other girls... how much do you think that would devastate her if she found out? u don't do that kinda sh|t to someone u love...
18-Aug-2006, 10:23 AM
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in this guy's case...like seriously, he should sit down with this girl and tell her the deal...this aint 1952 where people waited till marriage for sexual relations...and a man has needs and these kinda needs need to be fulfilled and that if they were to consumate their relationship prior to marriage it would bring them closer emotionally and physically and wave any doubts or concerns he might have.
does she atleast give him mad head?
and hell what are condoms for if she is afraid of preggo?
this girl is whack, she better be goddamn hot!
does she atleast give him mad head?
and hell what are condoms for if she is afraid of preggo?
this girl is whack, she better be goddamn hot!
18-Aug-2006, 10:36 AM
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how can you be series without sex? i'm guessing they do oral at least?
he can also ask her to give him his brown belt.
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all he really has to do is tease the hell out of her and she'll be asking for it soon enough... without any pressure.. touching and talking will take you a long way.. especially if you're already lying down naked together.
he can also ask her to give him his brown belt.
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all he really has to do is tease the hell out of her and she'll be asking for it soon enough... without any pressure.. touching and talking will take you a long way.. especially if you're already lying down naked together.
18-Aug-2006, 10:45 AM
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If I read the q correctly, this person is asking for advice?
Imho, if this guy is asking for advice from his buddies (not some confidential talk with a close friend or older person), then the girl should be kicking him to the curb. What goes on between them should stay between them, especially if this is a serious relationship. And if he's not mature enough to come to his own conclusions...*waving*...buh-bye.
Imho, if this guy is asking for advice from his buddies (not some confidential talk with a close friend or older person), then the girl should be kicking him to the curb. What goes on between them should stay between them, especially if this is a serious relationship. And if he's not mature enough to come to his own conclusions...*waving*...buh-bye.
