"Fake ones"....what's the point??
24-Mar-2003, 10:57 PM
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"Fake ones"....what's the point??
I've always wondered what motivates people to smile in your face and have nothing but nice things to say when they're speaking to you. But in actuallity these very same people are talking trash about you behind your back, and deliberately trying to make trouble in your life.
I mean, if you dont like me, why be fake about it? Why even make the effort to acknowledge the person you dislike exists? To me it just seems like a waste of everyones time. I see these unecessary efforts to be superficial, and I cant understand why people would goto these efforts just to be fake.
Also if your going to offer to help someone out, and then turn around and not help them, dont even offer in the first place....people like this fall in the same category as "fake ones" and deserve a
I mean, if you dont like me, why be fake about it? Why even make the effort to acknowledge the person you dislike exists? To me it just seems like a waste of everyones time. I see these unecessary efforts to be superficial, and I cant understand why people would goto these efforts just to be fake.
Also if your going to offer to help someone out, and then turn around and not help them, dont even offer in the first place....people like this fall in the same category as "fake ones" and deserve a
24-Mar-2003, 11:13 PM
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see that the key ... they don't realize that your seeing through them....(in other word like I said before they suck at it)
this is basically how the game is played they try to be your friend in person ... why? to get you to like them and if they get in a jam where you are the only one to bail them out they can think you will.... thats manipulation... getting you to do something you really don't want too...
now heres the rest of it they talk about you behiond your back to gain support for getting rid of you to help themselves out for some other reason... and thats manipulation too because they are getting other people to help with something that they might not do on there own...
and in the end it makes them look stupid because like I said they suck at it... the good ones don't get caught ... a person has been fired from my department because I didn't like him (2 reasons why I did it 1 college gruge and 2 there was only 1 full time spot and we were both contract) do I regret doing it... nope ... does anyone know I had manipulated my boss ...well not till now...
the good ones get away with it the bad ones look 2 faced..
this is basically how the game is played they try to be your friend in person ... why? to get you to like them and if they get in a jam where you are the only one to bail them out they can think you will.... thats manipulation... getting you to do something you really don't want too...
now heres the rest of it they talk about you behiond your back to gain support for getting rid of you to help themselves out for some other reason... and thats manipulation too because they are getting other people to help with something that they might not do on there own...
and in the end it makes them look stupid because like I said they suck at it... the good ones don't get caught ... a person has been fired from my department because I didn't like him (2 reasons why I did it 1 college gruge and 2 there was only 1 full time spot and we were both contract) do I regret doing it... nope ... does anyone know I had manipulated my boss ...well not till now...
the good ones get away with it the bad ones look 2 faced..
25-Mar-2003, 03:30 PM
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"Fake ones"....what's the point??
Its like why do girls fake @rgasms...because they can...why are there fake people...because there are. Its alll a game, life's a game...Work Hard, Play Hard!
Theres nothing you can do about it, so don't lose sleep over it. I agree with JookSingKid:
grab a beer
25-Mar-2003, 03:36 PM
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i guess everyone has their own "fake" side...it relaly depends. in some cases you might HAVE to be fake...like when you're working as sales of something...not lying or anything, but maybe you wre in this relaly bad mood but you always have to put that big fat smile on your face? sigh...i hate fake ppl too, and especially the ones that are REALLY fake and you know they are fake! those are relaly funny when you see them trying so hard to ACT real! lol
25-Mar-2003, 03:48 PM
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Well there's many types of people out there..just don't be a victim of their manipulation. 1st step is realizing and spotting them.
Those who like to be fake can be, but I don't think we should judge those fakers cuz it's their life - "they can live through their whole lives like that, and they'll just be livin a lie"
I'm not about to live a lie and be one of those FAKERS...
Well there's many types of people out there..just don't be a victim of their manipulation. 1st step is realizing and spotting them.
Those who like to be fake can be, but I don't think we should judge those fakers cuz it's their life - "they can live through their whole lives like that, and they'll just be livin a lie"
I'm not about to live a lie and be one of those FAKERS...
25-Mar-2003, 04:50 PM
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hehehe ... well fakers arn't trying to live a lie ...they are trying to manipulate the situation ...but suck at it thats why you see right through it...
it's the people that don't seem to be "fakers" you have to watch out for most people have a secret agenda...
it's the people that don't seem to be "fakers" you have to watch out for most people have a secret agenda...
25-Mar-2003, 05:05 PM
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Originally posted by gatherer
hehehe ... well fakers arn't trying to live a lie ...they are trying to manipulate the situation ...but suck at it thats why you see right through it...
it's the people that don't seem to be "fakers" you have to watch out for most people have a secret agenda...
hehehe ... well fakers arn't trying to live a lie ...they are trying to manipulate the situation ...but suck at it thats why you see right through it...
it's the people that don't seem to be "fakers" you have to watch out for most people have a secret agenda...
would they then be fake because they don't act fake?
how do we know if someone that isn't fake is really fake...and just hiding it well?
what's your secret agenda?
mine's world domination
25-Mar-2003, 05:06 PM
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nuttin fake about me... I don't like you, I'll tell you straight up... STFU!! Or I'll ignore you, so you know. Sometimes I ignore strangers too just out of habit more than anything else, but I'm much more open to new ppl than I used to be.
25-Mar-2003, 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by gatherer
it's the people that don't seem to be "fakers" you have to watch out for most people have a secret agenda...
it's the people that don't seem to be "fakers" you have to watch out for most people have a secret agenda...
Originally posted by bbarbulo
nuttin fake about me... .
nuttin fake about me... .
25-Mar-2003, 05:21 PM
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cosmic ...my secert agenda is to get video of you running through the daisies naked and post it up on this board as a final act before you ban me for doing sooo it will be my crowning achievement...
