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07-Feb-2003, 03:41 PM
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Re: Re: plain and simple
Originally posted by Leeta
OMG! I can't believe I missed out on this whole discussion! k, I'm not going to read the whole thing cause it's way too long. But this caught my eye... Sorry if I repeat what someone else said...
First of all....every girl is totally different!! Some are very vein, some, yes do want you for your money, or your car, or your looks blah blah blah!! BUT! Most smart girls have figured out, that all of the good guys will not like them in return, if they are only with them for these reasons! Therefore...you guys need to find these girls.
I do agree with most of what BarelyLegalCivic said....except number 5!! If I met a guy that was an *** to me or one of my friends, I simply would not talk to him again! Those guys are retarted! They try to look cool but they are not!
So what would I look for in a guy....someone who has looks (doesn't have to be gorgeous) but matches my dream guy in my head (no I am not going to list all of the features), someone who gets along with my family and his, has goals and ambitions, has self confidence, but not consided, knows how to take care of himself, doesn't put people down, treats me as well as I treat him, is honest and trustworthy, and also has total trust in me. I know this is a big list, and I probably missed a lot. But I have found a couple guys who have met this profile exactly. Only because I didn't waste time with the ones that I thought didn't match it.
Don't change who you are for a girl, if you were meant to be with a girl you will. And again DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS!!!!
OMG! I can't believe I missed out on this whole discussion! k, I'm not going to read the whole thing cause it's way too long. But this caught my eye... Sorry if I repeat what someone else said...
First of all....every girl is totally different!! Some are very vein, some, yes do want you for your money, or your car, or your looks blah blah blah!! BUT! Most smart girls have figured out, that all of the good guys will not like them in return, if they are only with them for these reasons! Therefore...you guys need to find these girls.
I do agree with most of what BarelyLegalCivic said....except number 5!! If I met a guy that was an *** to me or one of my friends, I simply would not talk to him again! Those guys are retarted! They try to look cool but they are not!
So what would I look for in a guy....someone who has looks (doesn't have to be gorgeous) but matches my dream guy in my head (no I am not going to list all of the features), someone who gets along with my family and his, has goals and ambitions, has self confidence, but not consided, knows how to take care of himself, doesn't put people down, treats me as well as I treat him, is honest and trustworthy, and also has total trust in me. I know this is a big list, and I probably missed a lot. But I have found a couple guys who have met this profile exactly. Only because I didn't waste time with the ones that I thought didn't match it.
Don't change who you are for a girl, if you were meant to be with a girl you will. And again DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS!!!!
goes along with the other one ,,, but it looks like alot of the members like to get read on by women .... it's too bad ...
again great comments me lady
07-Feb-2003, 03:41 PM
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lol dont find TCC meets apealing
depends on the girl
i agree tho once a year ...go nuts spend on her
another rule DONT COME ON TOO STRONG it scares them
they all say they want a guiy how cares ...but there is a piont when its just creepy....i used to do it...be the nicest guy buy flowers for no reason and it got me no where
i do want someone who cares.likes me for me
i havent found anyone in almost 4 years
everyone says it happens when your not trying to find it.,i havent been trying and stuiill nothign ,........
i will NEVER let anythuing to do with being alone bother me anymore
i cant wait til the day im in LOVE....but til that day
no worries
depends on the girl
i agree tho once a year ...go nuts spend on her
another rule DONT COME ON TOO STRONG it scares them
they all say they want a guiy how cares ...but there is a piont when its just creepy....i used to do it...be the nicest guy buy flowers for no reason and it got me no where
i do want someone who cares.likes me for me
i havent found anyone in almost 4 years
everyone says it happens when your not trying to find it.,i havent been trying and stuiill nothign ,........
i will NEVER let anythuing to do with being alone bother me anymore
i cant wait til the day im in LOVE....but til that day
no worries
07-Feb-2003, 03:54 PM
#103
From a women's perspective....
If you gentlemen spent less time trying to figure out what women want, and more time figuring out what YOU want, you might find life alot easier.
In my experience, the most problems that I have had in relationships is that the men don't really know themselves that well, too busy in the beginning to be the good guy, or bad *** guy or whatever, that when they are comfortable in the relationship I realize I don't really like who they are.
If you gentlemen spent less time trying to figure out what women want, and more time figuring out what YOU want, you might find life alot easier.
In my experience, the most problems that I have had in relationships is that the men don't really know themselves that well, too busy in the beginning to be the good guy, or bad *** guy or whatever, that when they are comfortable in the relationship I realize I don't really like who they are.
07-Feb-2003, 03:59 PM
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see depends on the girl..........
07-Feb-2003, 04:06 PM
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Originally posted by electronblue
From a women's perspective....
If you gentlemen spent less time trying to figure out what women want, and more time figuring out what YOU want, you might find life alot easier.
From a women's perspective....
If you gentlemen spent less time trying to figure out what women want, and more time figuring out what YOU want, you might find life alot easier.
07-Feb-2003, 04:26 PM
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i know what i want
someone i can bring home and meet my parents
someione who likes me for the messed up guy i am
someone who supports me and my decisions
someone who loves me
someone who will be my bestfriend and more
someone who can give me advice
someone amazing in my eyes
someone who thinks i am amazing
someone who thinks i am the world to them
someone who will be the world to me
someone i can make laugh andmake me laugh
someone who makes me a better person
someone who makes me feel great to be alive
someone how can be cute and adorable
someone that gets along with my family and friends
someone who DOESNT DO DRUGS allthe time
thats some of what i want
someone i can bring home and meet my parents
someione who likes me for the messed up guy i am
someone who supports me and my decisions
someone who loves me
someone who will be my bestfriend and more
someone who can give me advice
someone amazing in my eyes
someone who thinks i am amazing
someone who thinks i am the world to them
someone who will be the world to me
someone i can make laugh andmake me laugh
someone who makes me a better person
someone who makes me feel great to be alive
someone how can be cute and adorable
someone that gets along with my family and friends
someone who DOESNT DO DRUGS allthe time
thats some of what i want
07-Feb-2003, 04:53 PM
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"someone who makes me a better person"
the only person who can do that is you pal..
the only person who can do that is you pal..
07-Feb-2003, 04:56 PM
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Originally posted by BarelyLegalCivi
i know what i want
someone i can bring home and meet my parents
someione who likes me for the messed up guy i am
someone who supports me and my decisions
someone who loves me
someone who will be my bestfriend and more
someone who can give me advice
someone amazing in my eyes
someone who thinks i am amazing
someone who thinks i am the world to them
someone who will be the world to me
someone i can make laugh andmake me laugh
someone who makes me a better person
someone who makes me feel great to be alive
someone how can be cute and adorable
someone that gets along with my family and friends
someone who DOESNT DO DRUGS allthe time
thats some of what i want
i know what i want
someone i can bring home and meet my parents
someione who likes me for the messed up guy i am
someone who supports me and my decisions
someone who loves me
someone who will be my bestfriend and more
someone who can give me advice
someone amazing in my eyes
someone who thinks i am amazing
someone who thinks i am the world to them
someone who will be the world to me
someone i can make laugh andmake me laugh
someone who makes me a better person
someone who makes me feel great to be alive
someone how can be cute and adorable
someone that gets along with my family and friends
someone who DOESNT DO DRUGS allthe time
thats some of what i want
07-Feb-2003, 04:57 PM
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Marty, Haven't you seen any of those crappy love story movies (yuk) where the guy starts to cry at the end and claims he loves the girl because she makes him want to be a better man....
yeah ok that the movies I say you want to be better then go out and be better... you want to not be better then go out and not be better.... no one has the power to change anyone else...
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yeah ok that the movies I say you want to be better then go out and be better... you want to not be better then go out and not be better.... no one has the power to change anyone else...
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I am my own man!!
07-Feb-2003, 05:01 PM
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that was Jack Nicholson....
in the resteraunt..talking to Helen Hunt..
"you make me wanna be a better man.."
in the resteraunt..talking to Helen Hunt..
"you make me wanna be a better man.."
07-Feb-2003, 05:05 PM
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yeah something like that I hate getting dragged to movies ... but movies influence people and get them to believe crap...
I still think I'll walk on mars....damn movies
I still think I'll walk on mars....damn movies
07-Feb-2003, 05:32 PM
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Hahaha, BarelyLegalCivic, I don't think anyone should take anything in excess, and certainly not do these things for someone in a new relationship. But if you've been going out for a while, like 6 mos. w/o any effort, you should try to show her you care. LOL not just buy flowers for some broad at work or in your class...haha...that's CREEPY. We got one guy who was trying too damn hard... CrazyKid. He was trippin on himself man! Electronblue has a good point. Gotta know what you want, cuz I hated finding out the girls I've been with had no idea what they wanted. I think a lot of folks on this board are younger though and just need to do some more maturing, and coming into who they're gonna be for the rest of their lives. Don't worry too much about it guys...
07-Feb-2003, 08:53 PM
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I think that if you all just be yourself, eventually that "right" girl will come along!
08-Feb-2003, 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by Si Veloz
"someone who makes me a better person"
the only person who can do that is you pal..
"someone who makes me a better person"
the only person who can do that is you pal..
the most appealing thing in a relationship is when both people know who they are and are satisfied with who they are, etc... then the relationship can really grow and mature into something worthwhile, if you're constantly depending on each other to survive it's not going to work, i dunno how to put this metaphor but it's the best way i know how, maybe someone can word it better for me... a successful relationship doesn't come from 'two halves' coming together to form a whole... a successful relationship comes from 'two whole people' that come together to make an even stronger, greater, and more formidable whole than alone....
it's synergy more or less... 1+1=3 if you do things right..
08-Feb-2003, 05:27 AM
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Originally posted by Leeta
I think that if you all just be yourself, eventually that "right" girl will come along!
I think that if you all just be yourself, eventually that "right" girl will come along!
08-Feb-2003, 09:43 AM
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Originally posted by labatia
the right girl will come along.. but if u keep pushign them away how will u know? the way i see it NOW..if a girl wants to be with me she has to try and make the effort to tell me she wants to be with me
the right girl will come along.. but if u keep pushign them away how will u know? the way i see it NOW..if a girl wants to be with me she has to try and make the effort to tell me she wants to be with me
08-Feb-2003, 12:24 PM
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yeah i'm 
08-Feb-2003, 12:56 PM
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because of my past.. everyone is different..once you get hurt u will never forget
08-Feb-2003, 01:03 PM
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Originally posted by Leeta
Why would you be pushing them away?!
Why would you be pushing them away?!
whats with that?
