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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:08 PM
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Friend's Sibling

Would you ever date your friend's sister/brother (depending on your sex and prefference)? Have you already? What about a friend of yours dating your sister/brother?
Is this taboo as big a deal as some make it? or is it nothing serious?
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Personaly, I don't see anything wrong with it. I personaly don't have a sis/brother, but even if a friend were to date them I don't think I'd mind that much. I'd just want to make sure that after the break up (IF they broke up) that we'd still be friends.
I HAVE dated a friends sis, and he hated it. He gradualy came around, but I was still his friend. He was the one making things harder than they needed to be. I don't know. Maybe I'm just to laid back cuz this situation doesn't/wouldn't bother me.
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:15 PM
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back in high school I dated my friends sister.. he didn't like it what so ever, so I basically stopped seeing her (he was a good friend). I guess it all depends on the friend, if he's fine with it then sure I don't see a problem.. but if he is really protective of his sister then I would try to talk to him just so he knows that you won't treat his sister like dirt.

Goodluck with your decision Paul lol
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:16 PM
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My BEST friends will not/would not date my sister out of respect for our friendship. I would not date a sister of a good friend, someone i know yes. Maybe if you had a sister you would understand....
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:25 PM
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Maybe......I don't know....I've already dated her and we broke up months ago.....but I've heard bothi sides and was just curiouse as to what people have to say on this.
I guess if I had a sis things would be different...but at teh same time I don't think so. Cuz I've dated a an Ex's Best friend too (LMAO. I always do it the hard way) and my Ex said, what if I dated so and so (best friend of mine). Personaly...I wouldn't care. If you two are happy...great....Just don't pull me into any of the usual relationship bickering, and if you split, I'll comfort my friend over the Ex. I guess I'm just....different LMAO...can't think of a better word!
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:29 PM
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I've poked my friend's sister's but never my best friends...*hugs* sir_88crx
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:30 PM
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lol...
I wouldn't like that
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:40 PM
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Originally posted by Zyepher
I've poked my friend's sister's but never my best friends...*hugs* sir_88crx
LMFAO! Way to keep it respectable!!!!! LOL
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:42 PM
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I think it depends on the friend.
And if they have expressed they dont like it. To keep that friendship you might have to respect their wishes.

Kind of the same as dating a bestfriend...
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:43 PM
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It's no big deal, just don't get caught.
 
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Originally posted by Tego
It's no big deal, just don't get caught.
lol
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:56 PM
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I WOULDNT DATE ANY OF MY FRIENDS BROTHERS/SISTERS AND WOULDNT LIKE IT IF THEY DATED MINE.

SAME GOES FOR EX GIRLFRIENDS AND ANY FAMILY MEMBERS.
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 05:58 PM
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I'm just curious...those who think it's "no big deal" Do you have siblings? Would it bother you if a friend dated them? I'm just wondering if not having a sibling effects my judgment. Is there anybody here who does have a sibling that wouldn't mind if a friend dated them?
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 06:00 PM
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Originally posted by hdave
...SAME GOES FOR EX GIRLFRIENDS AND ANY FAMILY MEMBERS.
Ummm.......I don't think anybody here is into the whole cousin lovin' scene LOL
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 06:24 PM
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do it man! if your friend doesn't like it, he/she is not a real friend. if you get sad that you're no longer friends then just think of that night you had their sister/brother! that'll cheer you up
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 06:27 PM
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Non of my friends have a good looking sister, and most of them don't even have one.
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 06:31 PM
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Date your own sister or cousin, its much better
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 06:34 PM
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That's hawt.
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Old 18-Oct-2005, 06:41 PM
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OH MY!!!!!!
I agree with the whole if I lose him as a friend, just think about the ish that her and I did...and trust me she's hot! Only sis of a friend that is.....Rick can vouch for how hot she is! He's seen her....A couple of you may have.
But anyways...been there done that....I'm closer friends with her than him now. We're not together anymore asd stated earlier. I'm just curious as to waht other ppl think.
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I don't have any siblings, maybe thats why I dont' care cause I don't have any....lol!
 
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persoanlly i wouldn't care, and i do have a sister.
i also would date a buddies sister.

the people who say they don't want the siblings and friends dating is self centered and selfish. are you in the relationship? NO. so who gives a flying **** what you think.

i prefer to see my siblings and buddies happy, and if dating each other makes em happy, im all for it.
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