Friend's Sibling
#43
Originally posted by Cablerat
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Anyways....It's not that akward.....it is at the start but as time goes by it gets easier. Anyways, as I've said...this isn't a matter of what I'm going to do. I've already been there done that (pun very much intended LOL). I just like posting controversial things in chit-chat cuz I like to see what different people think. I like debates.
Sadly...being single, I'm a master of debaters! LMFAO!!!!!! Sorry....I couldn't resist that one myself!
#45
i don't see anything wrong, but i would never date a friend's sister... its just the sense of protection you have in you as a brother... you know... you like to protect your sister... and all depends if your friend is a good guy or not in the end...
#46
Actually in high school i liked this girl, so i find out who she is and so on. Later i found out it was my friends sister. She was hot and i kind of liked her. I guess i only like her because she's hot. Anyways. Her brother and i were just friends, not like best friends or really close friends, but he is in my school and same year and some same class so we do chat sometimes. He found out that i know her sister and becoming close together, i heard some of my friends telling me that her brother don't like it. So when i grad high school and she just finish grade 9 i didn't really talk to her now. But i see my friend sometimes and he still talks to me and so on, but when i see his brother i still think of his sister haha. I guess if your friend think your a nice guy, then maybe he will accept u, if your friend or best friend think u are a player or a flirter or something of cuz he doesn't want u touching his sister. If it was a close friend maybe u should keep away from her sister, if it was just a friend but not that close friend i think u can mack on her.
#50
Originally posted by civicnation
I think it's just a unspoken thing to not pursue your friends sisters. I mean i think it would be hard for my friends if they knew i was banging their sisters. Just wierd so i'd just stay away from that situation. Not like there are no other girls. Tonnes out there, no need to put yourself in an awkward situation. Thas just my opinion.
I think it's just a unspoken thing to not pursue your friends sisters. I mean i think it would be hard for my friends if they knew i was banging their sisters. Just wierd so i'd just stay away from that situation. Not like there are no other girls. Tonnes out there, no need to put yourself in an awkward situation. Thas just my opinion.
#51
Ya...well.....like I've said....I've already had a relationship with her......she's technically an Ex now....but....there si some talk going on between us.
I don't know...I'm sur eI'll date somebody else, but shes just so damn HAWT!!!!!!! LOL
Nut then again...my best freind hates her and her brother is another one of my best friends...so...ya.....lots of negatives with one MAJOR possitive LOL
Only thing I can do is see where things go. But I don't think they'll go anywhere.
I don't know...I'm sur eI'll date somebody else, but shes just so damn HAWT!!!!!!! LOL
Nut then again...my best freind hates her and her brother is another one of my best friends...so...ya.....lots of negatives with one MAJOR possitive LOL
Only thing I can do is see where things go. But I don't think they'll go anywhere.
#52
to me, it all depends.
if we were all young and i knew a friend liked my sister and was only persuing her to hook up.. heeellll no.
but it we were older, and he was persuing her and really liked her, like a long serious relationship sorta hookup, i dont think id have a problem.
if we were all young and i knew a friend liked my sister and was only persuing her to hook up.. heeellll no.
but it we were older, and he was persuing her and really liked her, like a long serious relationship sorta hookup, i dont think id have a problem.
#54
I see it from both sides having a sis.
the thing about best friends is that you know them inside out...u know if they are the type of guyz who play, wana just fool around, 1 nite stands, cheat...whatever.. so I can understand why you may feel uncomfortable letting your sister date such a guy...
And yes...its an natural thing to protect your sis whether she be older or younger.
But this is where the 2nd side comes in...its hypocritical in a way..you may not let your best bud date your sis cuz of all the reasons stated above..sum it up (u know how his true colours)..but at the same time...if some other guy that you barely know starts gettin close to ur sis at her skool n stuff n they start dating...
U cant really do much other then let the guy know that your watchin over her...n hez gonna have to pay if he does anything stupid...
So now wouldnt it be better to have your best bud date her? he may be an *** at times but atleast u know him inside out...n if he is ur best bud he must obviously have respect for u as a friend and as the brother of his girl.
Last but not least, depends on what kind of a person you are...if you arent an *** at times, arent really perverted and dont fool around with a girls head...then your best friend should be able to see that in you..and realize that maybe u are the best choice for her...n if she wants to be in this (hoping that shez thought it thru) then u gotta stop seperatin romeo n juliet..like their ..umm parents did...? lol
boy have I totally forgotten the names in that story...
Any hoo
nuff said, u can see what thinkin track Im on..
the thing about best friends is that you know them inside out...u know if they are the type of guyz who play, wana just fool around, 1 nite stands, cheat...whatever.. so I can understand why you may feel uncomfortable letting your sister date such a guy...
And yes...its an natural thing to protect your sis whether she be older or younger.
But this is where the 2nd side comes in...its hypocritical in a way..you may not let your best bud date your sis cuz of all the reasons stated above..sum it up (u know how his true colours)..but at the same time...if some other guy that you barely know starts gettin close to ur sis at her skool n stuff n they start dating...
U cant really do much other then let the guy know that your watchin over her...n hez gonna have to pay if he does anything stupid...
So now wouldnt it be better to have your best bud date her? he may be an *** at times but atleast u know him inside out...n if he is ur best bud he must obviously have respect for u as a friend and as the brother of his girl.
Last but not least, depends on what kind of a person you are...if you arent an *** at times, arent really perverted and dont fool around with a girls head...then your best friend should be able to see that in you..and realize that maybe u are the best choice for her...n if she wants to be in this (hoping that shez thought it thru) then u gotta stop seperatin romeo n juliet..like their ..umm parents did...? lol
boy have I totally forgotten the names in that story...
Any hoo
nuff said, u can see what thinkin track Im on..
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