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Old 31-Mar-2003, 12:13 AM
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that girl

apparently that girl who ended it with me ,did it on email because she didn't have the heart to do it in person..she spoke to me today, and i consider her a friend cause she is really nice...but, she never really clarified why she ended it with me...apparently her mom hates my guts...but wut should i do...i still care for her...
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 12:26 AM
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OMG!
That must be horrible man!
Any girl that ends a relationship is not worth being with. It would appear she has no class.(no offense)
Besides if her mom hates you, would you really want her to be your mother in law?
Go out and drive the Civic around and you'll be fine.
Time heals all wounds and what doesn't kill you will ultimately make your stronger.
Good luck man.
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 12:28 AM
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i'm sorry man,

but what do you mean what should you do? if it's over it's over, you gotta start moving on... either way she didn't want to be in the relationship for whatever reason, i know i'm harsh, but it's the reality, the more you dwell on her the sadder you're going to be for a longer period of time...
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BUT SHE HAS BEEN THE CUTIEST GIRL I HAVE EVER GOT
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 01:08 AM
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Moving on is hard man, but it must be done. Think of this philosophy "people arent in love, but rather the though of being in love." maybe thats what it was. i didnt really like her, u jus like the thought of being with someone.
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 01:16 AM
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YEAH I GUESS...SO I NEED SOMEONE ELSE TO FILL THE VOID...LATEY I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO FILL THE VOID WITH MATERIAL POSSESSIONS...RINGS CLOTHS AND STUFF....I NEED SOMETHING
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 02:06 AM
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it's always like that man, you gotta keep busy so you don't feel the void as much....... you loved being in a relationship.... everyone does.... it's the way we're built... but you gotta move on
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 02:17 AM
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i think cause this is my longest one 6 months...my others are usually 1 nite....hahah
well a few hours...or sometimes a week
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 02:24 AM
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lol, it's alright man you'll survive and then find someone even better than before.... it's how life works... it's a rollercoaster, without the lows there would be no highs....
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 02:36 AM
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Re: that girl

Originally posted by speedracer
apparently that girl who ended it with me ,did it on email because she didn't have the heart to do it in person..she spoke to me today, and i consider her a friend cause she is really nice...but, she never really clarified why she ended it with me...apparently her mom hates my guts...but wut should i do...i still care for her...
ended it on email??

damn man thats COLD!!

well, if u really do care for her, and there is really nothing u can do as of this point, then the best thing i can advise is to remain friends and keep the friendship close. . . cuz who knows, mayber later down the line u both can get back together. . but i guess maybe now isn't the time...

look on the bright side and hope things work out well for u

*HuGZ*
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 07:21 AM
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Congradulations! You're FREE!!!!

Burn the bridge my friend, don't look back, don't go crazy a mac out on all the trash out there either, hold your pride, be respectful to her if you see here, but don't become a door mat and stock her and stuff.

Don't seend her "friend" flowers and rose o grams...

Breath the fresh new air, it's a brave new world.
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 08:26 AM
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Dude don't worry man I've told most my ex g/fs moms off :fustrated cuz they're ****** nosey or anoying asking me what am I gonna do with my life..... I threw my shoe at one once and added some spin to it..... not a good idea..... I even egged one once and she chased me with a baseball bat and found me hiding in a tool shed ..... I tried to tell her it was the fat kid across the street and begged her not to kick my *** ..... but she still did and she got me good and the fat kid across the street that didn't have anything to do with it ..... well in conclusion with this story...... well frankly there is no conclusion..... but the moral is to remember the good times you had with your girl and the times you wanted to kick her mom, dad or brothers *** for being dicks or confuzzling. Keep her as a friend too cuz you can always get some from her..... I know cuz I keep most my exs close and it seems like we're still going out but we're not but they give in for a booty call cuz they miss the Cack!!! So yeah I hope my dumbass lame story cheered you up a bit and made you giggle for at least a sec or 2. Well good luck dude, but I'm sure you'll find some really nice girl again and you'll have the ex right for a booty call. So take it easy guy and live life.
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 10:40 AM
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Sucks to be you.

Move on with life.

Get over it.

Go buy a tank of gas and top up and drive around Toronto @ Redline and you'll feel all better by the time the tank is done.

I learned how to deal with my past girl problems... so I suggest you learn to do the same soon or there might be some people on this board that are gonna get all angry at you for doing the same thing I did to this board.

But on a serious note... tell her mom to go screw herself. You're not here to impress her.... you're not marrying her.. why do you care what she thinks???
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 10:45 AM
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Originally posted by NoSpleeny
Sucks to be you.

Move on with life.

Get over it.

Go buy a tank of gas and top up and drive around Toronto @ Redline and you'll feel all better by the time the tank is done.

I learned how to deal with my past girl problems... so I suggest you learn to do the same soon or there might be some people on this board that are gonna get all angry at you for doing the same thing I did to this board.

But on a serious note... tell her mom to go screw herself. You're not here to impress her.... you're not marrying her.. why do you care what she thinks???
Oh my god...

Have we gotten through to No Spleeny..

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Old 31-Mar-2003, 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by speedracer
i think cause this is my longest one 6 months...my others are usually 1 nite....hahah
well a few hours...or sometimes a week
If you think 6 months is bad....try 4 years!!!!!! I too find myself find myself spending my money on material possessions. Its all part of the process I think.

Listen to SilverSiG....he's wise even at his tender age.
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 12:19 PM
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hey think aobut it this way, you got free time and more money for your ride now!

well, anyway, sorry to hear it's over, but usually, from experience and stuff, if the in laws don't really like you, the relationship will have a higher rate of breaking up, however, if they like you, you two are set for the long run
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Originally posted by 94EG6HB


Oh my god...

Have we gotten through to No Spleeny..

whats next?!?

"smoking?"

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Old 31-Mar-2003, 01:16 PM
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lol.

You guys want me to start smoking?
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 04:55 PM
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dun worry there are plenty of other better chicks out there for you. . . its an ocean out there. . .

you'll find yourself another one in no time...just chillax.
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Old 31-Mar-2003, 04:57 PM
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ummm.... which way to this "ocean" you speak of?? LOL

It's a lot easier for girls than guys (assuming you got looks ) Guys are easy!! Girls... not so much.
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