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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:09 PM
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Unhappy Grown Men Crying...

A question for y'all...

Should men cry? and if so, under what circumstances. Around their girlfriends, around their parents, around their siblings, in public, only in private, only in the company of a prostitute?

If some degree of crying is allowed, what degree? Sobbing, whimpering, sniffing, balling, etc?

This may seem like a stupid post, and it may very well be one, but its a question worth asking one another.

Just think, the next time some makes you cry and says you shouldn't cr, well now you can print out this post and show them that we are all down with crying, but wait, that only works if people think men should cry. So make up your minds!

:cry:

or

:cry:
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:12 PM
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any body can cry
cry me a river
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:29 PM
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ya, there are times when you don't have a choice but to let loose a bit..
 
Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:34 PM
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ya, there are times when you don't have a choice but to let loose a bit..
Agreed
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:40 PM
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hey what ever happened to the stiff upper lip???
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:47 PM
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hey what ever happened to the stiff upper lip???
it's out racing Solo2
 
Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:49 PM
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seee???? admins... do you see that ????? I didn't bring it up this time....

ok back on topic seriously no one should see you cry....
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:49 PM
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I cry :cry:

I am sick of girls hurting me and lying :fustrated
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 06:55 PM
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I really try not to cry, especially in front of anyone. But when my son was born I was a blubbering idiot, tears of Joy and in front of everyone.
 
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cying is like smoking..its a sign of weakness... BUT hold on dont flame me just yet!!! BUT this is a general statement

( I mean this as in crying all the time over stupid things like not getting your way, or crying from physical pain)

When you experiance a significant loss, or hurt deaply in some way, I dont think you should bottle it up... There are rules to crying lol... Dont ask me what they are, you just learn them from life experiances..

Oh one other thing, Crying cuz ur drunk is perfectly acceptable...lol
I love you man!!!...lol

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Old 28-Aug-2003, 07:34 PM
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i think Balling your eyes out infront of little kids in a public area is prefectly normal lol
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Old 28-Aug-2003, 08:41 PM
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I think crying is normal...you can only hold in so much...haha...but agreed..never in front of people..lol
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Crying is normal and I think that it's ok... WITHIN LIMITS!

If you're like overly sensitive and you're crying coz the sunset is beautiful or something like that then you have a problem, but if you're crying coz someone died or you got hurt in some way then it's perfectly all right!
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Originally posted by Cantonagod®©
I really try not to cry, especially in front of anyone. But when my son was born I was a blubbering idiot, tears of Joy and in front of everyone.
tears of Joy are always ok .... like when you laugh to hard at the movies that your eyes start to water....

tears of pain are bad .... no tears no pain
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agree with booster... you learn when to cry from your life experiences, but ya shouldnt cry in public or in front of ppl is something you when your by youself, or in admins case tears of joy... thats different... and ya laughing crying is totally different.
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you guys pretty much summed up my personal rules for cying...lol
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i cried once about a girl that rejected me in grade 7 lol since then i said to myself im a P.I.M.P so i dont care if they break up and go with someone else i just go chop another girl
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Originally posted by gatherer
seee???? admins... do you see that ????? I didn't bring it up this time....



What? Are you going to cry now?


Go ahead, I won't tell anyone.



M, that was mean of you.....................funny, but mean.
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Originally posted by CiViC [-_-] BoY ™
i think Balling your eyes out infront of little kids in a public area is prefectly normal lol
I told you to beat up that 8 year old that took you PS2.

wimp.
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BAHAHAHA... funniest thread this week!!!

Maybe cuz I've been through a lot, but I don't get emotinal or cry... I'm not sure if I'm capable anymore. And the last time I can remember... when I was prolly 11 or so it was a single tear down my eye... not a fookin mental breadown like some ppl have Hahaha...

Whatever, you can't control that, but you can control your behaviour, whether you curl up in the fetal position and sob or just maintain your composure... that part is up to you.

Jeff *hifive* you da man... surely I'd :cry: as well on such an occasion.
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