holy **** thats it I'm remaining single forever!
17-Mar-2004, 02:00 PM
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man dont' worry about it not everyone is gonna liek you...you have been outta the game for along time and are still usign your relationship game which is nice/emotional/caring/expressive
you need to lose those...never show that you like them to much, never get to hung up and get one-I-TIS..you are displaying AFC trates like faling in love fast, being nice, showing you care to much
all these trates will not land you a girl but will coem into play after you have been in a relationship for awhile..you can't give up..jsut go otu and talk to everyone, everygirl you see...never have jsut one girl..have atleast 2-3 so that you can pick which one you like and so if 1 dosne't work out then you still have 2...you basically fell way to quick and scared her, you gotta be CF (cute and funny) and a dominate male figure nto a littel wussy who catiers to their every need cause those guy's are "friends". this chick was clearly stupid to email you...lol..but hwo did she get yoru email...and this was jsut 4 day's max so no worries jsut move on their are thousands for amazing (not jsut looks) chicks out there....anyway for some honest help man pm me
you need to lose those...never show that you like them to much, never get to hung up and get one-I-TIS..you are displaying AFC trates like faling in love fast, being nice, showing you care to much
all these trates will not land you a girl but will coem into play after you have been in a relationship for awhile..you can't give up..jsut go otu and talk to everyone, everygirl you see...never have jsut one girl..have atleast 2-3 so that you can pick which one you like and so if 1 dosne't work out then you still have 2...you basically fell way to quick and scared her, you gotta be CF (cute and funny) and a dominate male figure nto a littel wussy who catiers to their every need cause those guy's are "friends". this chick was clearly stupid to email you...lol..but hwo did she get yoru email...and this was jsut 4 day's max so no worries jsut move on their are thousands for amazing (not jsut looks) chicks out there....anyway for some honest help man pm me
17-Mar-2004, 02:01 PM
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Originally posted by electronblue
Sorry to hear...
Just to elaborate on my above post, if any man treated me badly, his *** would be tossed to the curb in 3 seconds flat. And then the door would be slammed in his face when he came crawling and begging for another chance.
Sorry to hear...
Just to elaborate on my above post, if any man treated me badly, his *** would be tossed to the curb in 3 seconds flat. And then the door would be slammed in his face when he came crawling and begging for another chance.
17-Mar-2004, 02:05 PM
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dude bang that "civic-chick" or whatever she said she isnt' married....then after that your head will be clear and you can go out and pick soem chicks up
easy way to pick chicks up is be sarcastic/make fun of them...but in a funny way your voice and body language play a big role..keep them laughign/enter fluff talk...then say "hey you seem cool we should hang out some time" she will say ya hears my number or jsut ya then you say "ok well give me yoru number" then get outta there so you dont' do soemthiing gay and blwo the deal...lol
easy way to pick chicks up is be sarcastic/make fun of them...but in a funny way your voice and body language play a big role..keep them laughign/enter fluff talk...then say "hey you seem cool we should hang out some time" she will say ya hears my number or jsut ya then you say "ok well give me yoru number" then get outta there so you dont' do soemthiing gay and blwo the deal...lol
17-Mar-2004, 02:08 PM
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J, i was in the same boat for years... got screwed over, cheated on and turned down many times because girls thought i was too 'nice', etc...
so, after many years of thinking i was happy being single when i was actually quite miserable, i met a girl who was in the same situation as me... she was always looking for someone 'nice' and always wound up with jerks.
it'll take a while before you meet the right girl for you. keep looking but don't expect it to happen over night. when you meet her, you'll both know.
in the meantime, keep your head up and have some fun during your quest.
oh, and if you DO change your attitude to 'no more mr. niceguy' just be sure to remember that nice guy when she finally does come around.
so, after many years of thinking i was happy being single when i was actually quite miserable, i met a girl who was in the same situation as me... she was always looking for someone 'nice' and always wound up with jerks.
it'll take a while before you meet the right girl for you. keep looking but don't expect it to happen over night. when you meet her, you'll both know.
in the meantime, keep your head up and have some fun during your quest.
oh, and if you DO change your attitude to 'no more mr. niceguy' just be sure to remember that nice guy when she finally does come around.
17-Mar-2004, 02:10 PM
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Originally posted by gatherer
I was moving slow ... it was the setting of a third date that was the issue .....
I was moving slow ... it was the setting of a third date that was the issue .....
That rushing it in my books, don't ya think?
Maybe if you didn't approach dating like you're trying to fill a job description you might have better success.
"Hi, I'm looking for something in longterm"
"Thats aisle 6 sir"
drink up jay, its st patty's day
17-Mar-2004, 02:29 PM
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bah, worry not!!
you can't be ballin if you care too much... fuggedaboutit.
i always establish a relationship (if and only if I'm still down) AFTER we've slept together. anything before that is rushing it
but don't listen to me, I've been single for 1.5 years or so 
you can't be ballin if you care too much... fuggedaboutit.
i always establish a relationship (if and only if I'm still down) AFTER we've slept together. anything before that is rushing it
but don't listen to me, I've been single for 1.5 years or so
17-Mar-2004, 03:01 PM
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After getting dumped the best way to handle it.....is either hit on the best friend of the girl......LOL, Drink like u've never drank before and find a new girl.......or go out and spend some money on ur car.......u feel soo much better doing all those things......
unless it was a mutual break up
unless it was a mutual break up
17-Mar-2004, 03:14 PM
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Jay, that's pretty bad, I mean getting dumped via E-mail. This demonstrates her shallow and irresponsible personality. Don't get all worked up over a such short time. It ain't worth it.
When the time comes, you will meet someone special just like that *snaps fingers*. Part of it has to do with fate, but to keep 2 people going it takes a lot of effort to work things out. I sometimes wonder would I have been a happier person if I were single, spend the money on what I want and just enjoy the good times for 2 to 3 years then settle down. But now that I think of it, I am glad I am engaged to my gf. I knew she was a keeper the day we started going out.
With your passion in cars and racing, I suggest you go look for chicks that hangs around car clubs or tracks. Having a common interest is a good thing. Unless you have other interests besides cars.
When the time comes, you will meet someone special just like that *snaps fingers*. Part of it has to do with fate, but to keep 2 people going it takes a lot of effort to work things out. I sometimes wonder would I have been a happier person if I were single, spend the money on what I want and just enjoy the good times for 2 to 3 years then settle down. But now that I think of it, I am glad I am engaged to my gf. I knew she was a keeper the day we started going out.
With your passion in cars and racing, I suggest you go look for chicks that hangs around car clubs or tracks. Having a common interest is a good thing. Unless you have other interests besides cars.
17-Mar-2004, 03:32 PM
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Getting dumped after 4 days is NOT even being dumped..
Big deal man, don't let that get you down.. You can't get hung up on stuff like that, if it was 2 months or more, then yes it would seem like you've wasted so much time.. But it's also never a waste of time, you gotta learn from stuff like this. Like others have said, there's a billion girls everywhere, you can't expect to find the right one or even a long term relationship after just a few girls..
no worries man, get some booze, meet from friends, go party it up.. When you don't care about it, that's when you get it..
Big deal man, don't let that get you down.. You can't get hung up on stuff like that, if it was 2 months or more, then yes it would seem like you've wasted so much time.. But it's also never a waste of time, you gotta learn from stuff like this. Like others have said, there's a billion girls everywhere, you can't expect to find the right one or even a long term relationship after just a few girls..
no worries man, get some booze, meet from friends, go party it up.. When you don't care about it, that's when you get it..
