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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:28 PM
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omg..shazza why ...lol tears

bein so far away..i say it cuz i mean it..but i feel like he has to know i love him..even when we don't talk

but the longer we're apart the harder it gets..
i just feel love for him but i don't know if he gets it anymore..i mean..i know he knows..but holy crap..you and your insight...
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:32 PM
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^^so true actions speak louder than words, I never told the one person I ever loved that I did...she knew it, and still knows it....but I am tired and done. I'm tired of someone who dosen't love themselves and am tired of seeing so much potential go to waste...I'm tired of someone who lushes out and acts like a 15 year old, and won't help herself, I'm tired of being there 100% unconditionally to see someone amazing selling themselves short
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:33 PM
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omg..shazza why ...lol tears

bein so far away..i say it cuz i mean it..but i feel like he has to know i love him..even when we don't talk

but the longer we're apart the harder it gets..
i just feel love for him but i don't know if he gets it anymore..i mean..i know he knows..but holy crap..you and your insight...
Miss Perfect, I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's clear to me by just the sheer concern in your messages about your bf tells me you do mean what you say. Like I said, love is felt and not heard. If you feel it, it's alright. It's just something to worry about if you say it and not feel it. I don't think she meant to make you think twice. Although, if you have any doubts what-so-ever about the relationship, it may be cause for a thought...maybe you are worried about it...

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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:33 PM
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y wut? huh? lol.

ure situation is a bit different miss perfect. its harder for u guys to show ur love cuz ure so far apart. whereas me and my bf see each other all the time...sorry, didnt mean to rub it in.
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:42 PM
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it's ok...ughhh it's ok you only rubbed a lil

naw buddah, mostly concerned about bein at the half way mark as far as being away is..ill be home all summer, but at this point ive been away so long he gets used to it..and i dunno..so difficult to say how u feel and make sure everything's cool..when u stop communication, or slow down anyway. i dunno..love isn't the question, i think it's strength
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:45 PM
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I think......

that communication is the key, when that slows down, it degrades the feeling...and connection u have......
i care about u soo much Miss Perfect, but it'z been weird.....not talking for that lil while we didn't talk......
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:46 PM
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I hate to sound like an *** but your probobly 18-19 and there is a 98 % chance you guy's will break up by the end of summer so...loves a bitch all relationships end...you either get married or you break up...
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:47 PM
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Originally posted by Miss Perfect
it's ok...ughhh it's ok you only rubbed a lil

naw buddah, mostly concerned about bein at the half way mark as far as being away is..ill be home all summer, but at this point ive been away so long he gets used to it..and i dunno..so difficult to say how u feel and make sure everything's cool..when u stop communication, or slow down anyway. i dunno..love isn't the question, i think it's strength
i wouldnt be mad at that. i know i'd get used to it too. that doesnt mean much imo so, try not to focus too much on that. yeah, it must be very difficult for the 2 of u. *high five* for hanging in there. but skool is almost done.
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:50 PM
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Originally posted by dingus88
I hate to sound like an *** but your probobly 18-19 and there is a 98 % chance you guy's will break up by the end of summer so...loves a bitch all relationships end...you either get married or you break up...
haha...ure an ***. jk. aaaaaaaaah let them have their fun. their relationship is important to them at this point in their lives and obviously has enuff meaning and depth for them to hold on to an ld relationship...and who knows. u shouldnt look at a relationship as either marriage or break up esp at their age cuz then ull miss out on all the fun and learning.
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Old 21-Mar-2004, 11:52 PM
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Originally posted by bdotdan
just got this in my email, maybe it'll help ya Jay

Hey guys, this is how you should treat your girlfriend

Put your arms around her waist and whisper in her ear




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Make her feel wanted every chance you get




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Hold her close when she's cold




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When you are alone hold her close and kiss her




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Kiss her on the tip of her nose
(it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them)




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While in the movie, put your arm around her
and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder,
then lean in and tilt her chin and kiss her lightly




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When she complains that her neck/ shoulders hurts massage it for
her




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When people diss her stand up for her




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Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her




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Lay down under the stars and out her head on your chest so she can
listen to the steady beat of your heart,
Link your fingers together while you whisper to her
as she rests her eyes and listens to you

When you can do this to a girl and enjoy it... for sure your in love..

You have just completely described my boyfriend and the things he does... which makes him so amazing and why I love him so much..

Thats why we are going on 2 years and 1 month... and still going strong..
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Originally posted by Shazza

. u shouldnt look at a relationship as either marriage or break up esp at their age cuz then ull miss out on all the fun and learning.
Well Said
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Old 22-Mar-2004, 12:33 AM
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I hate to sound like an *** but your probobly 18-19 and there is a 98 % chance you guy's will break up by the end of summer so...loves a bitch all relationships end...you either get married or you break up...
Well, I guess someone here is just a bit bitter...rofl. But, in all seriousness, age is nothing but a number in my mind. Hell, I'm 30 and act 20 so, what's the difference? I understand you've had it hard dingus88 but, you can't give up...you can think about it, doubt it, and even question it but you can't give up on love.

"Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place."--Ice T, The Ice Opinion

"Mistakes are the portals of discovery."--James Joyce (1882 - 1941)

As long as you learn from your mistakes and don't make the same ones then you're fine. Just stop looking for that type of girl and move on.

"The last temptation is the greatest treason: to do the right deed for the wrong reason."--T. S. Eliot (1888 - 1965)

***I'll admit, I'm probably saying it for the wrong reasons but, it's my issue I have to face. Don't do it if you don't mean it....bottom line.

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Old 22-Mar-2004, 01:00 AM
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well said ^

you live and you learn..
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Old 22-Mar-2004, 01:16 AM
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opps ok correction :

the majority of my female friends are married.... all of them are nice ... but ussually taken...

I'm not married sweetie...
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Old 22-Mar-2004, 06:34 AM
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Buddah your beginning to sound as bitter as I am

anyways this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because this is the thread that doesn't die yes it gets posted in over and over again, some people wanted to start a topic not knowing what it was and it'll continue to be posted in just because
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Old 22-Mar-2004, 11:44 AM
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Wow calm. . . not all girls F*** with a guy's head!...maybe u just been dating the wrong ones??
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Old 22-Mar-2004, 12:29 PM
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hey Jay you did i tell you how i met my girlfriend
it happens in places youd never think of
try it man.

XBOX LIVE RULES!!
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Old 22-Mar-2004, 01:15 PM
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Civic Boy ..... man I would have never guessed that ... hell if you wanted too you could have started a betting pool 50/50 everyone chooses a different place and finally you tell everyone sometime down the road when the pot is huge and take 50% of the cash for the 2 of you ....
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yeah guy
its crazy
we can start a betting pool on what game we were playing

ill give i clue
i was the host of the room and it had to do with guns
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ok that narrows it down
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