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Old 26-Nov-2002, 04:08 AM
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long distance relationships

hey guys.. back to my love life agian.. lol
i live in pickering and she lives in brampton
has anyone every been in a long distance..well 45 min away relationship before? i mean we are basically going to see each other once a week but what did you do to make it work??
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 05:32 AM
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Mine was 5 hrs away before she moved up here to live with me.

Lots of ICQ, cheaper on the phone bill. Surprise visits are nice too.

Good luck!
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 05:36 AM
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damn we talk on the phone for about 6 hours a day
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 05:39 AM
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lol yeah thats the way it goes when distance keeps you apart
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 05:41 AM
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it sucks and drives me crazy i can see her once a week
5 more days till isee her.. see im even counting
but it makes you want to see her more so i kinda like it cause it means i will actually try to work out the relationship

its kinda hard to surprise visit her.. so i duno what esle to do
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 06:36 AM
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Long Distance???

45 minutes is not long distace to me. My GF lives 13 hours away...13 hours by airplane! She is in Japan. I e-mail her once a day and call once a week. No that is tough. She will be moving here next year though.

My advice to keep it going, is to "be good" when you are not with her.

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Old 26-Nov-2002, 07:12 AM
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im 18
shes 17 so its kinda tough for both of us because i only drive and she gets her g2 in march..i go up once a week
and yah i would never do anythign to hurt her even if i was drunk
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Originally posted by labatia
damn we talk on the phone for about 6 hours a day
Yeah, just keep that up...don't get too lazy. And drive a little more.
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 08:23 AM
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i guess when you are younge it's hard. i guess her parents are kind of strict too... i guess what you just need to do is try to work it out..surprise visits are good too...if you can't visit her at home, do it in her school...
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 08:49 AM
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italian parents..does that say it all?? lol
im going up there on saturday
i duno it just bugs me the seeing her 1 day a week thing.. it killssssss me but then i realize some people dont even see there girlfriends or boyfriends for like a month
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 09:16 AM
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Mm... long distance relationships sound like CYBER DATING!
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 09:36 AM
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Im in one right now and its hardfor me. Shes in New Brunswick for school.

I drove to New Brunswick and stayed for 4 days to see her.

She comes home for christmas! Woo Hoo!

I consider that long didtance but Japan beats that distance!
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 04:57 PM
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it's alright labatia...i guess it makes it more exciting for both of u since it's pretty new...
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do it in her school...
that's a bold suggestion .. what if they got caught?
 
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jugglez,jugglez, hhhmmmm lol
that's is not what i mean...i meant it as if he can't visit her at home, visit her at her school...although it was funny
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Oh i c. That makes more sense.

 
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Jugglez is horny. Don't mind him.

Jugglez is lacking the joys of life.. since he's never had a real girlfriend before. hehehe!
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I was in a long D relationship for 4yrs... FOUR YEARS.... and it ended... I'm not doing that again...
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Old 26-Nov-2002, 05:43 PM
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I was in a long D relationship for 4yrs... FOUR YEARS....
Thats how long shes in school for....
She said she would transfer closer next year for me.........

Im a little confused cause its SO far away but shes so worth the wait.

Or maby Im wrong in 4 years....
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Thats how long shes in school for....
She said she would transfer closer next year for me.........

Im a little confused cause its SO far away but shes so worth the wait.

Or maby Im wrong in 4 years....
if there is some certainty after those 4yrs you'll be with each other (as in living in the same city), then by all means I would go for it. If you like someone, definetely hold on. But if you don't know what may or may not happen, I see it is better to let go now than let go later... jus my experience.
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