imported_~ILLEST CIV~

Wow...all u guys...thanks for the comments and suggestions and what have u...........it was all....wow.....made me think.......it'z true if her and i get over this obstacle together i don't think there'z that much that would stop us in the future........another bad thing as both Miss Perfect and i know....is that there are constantly other ppl in the picture....that aren't exactly ppl we want....but lately if u will, have considered....because it'z a shorter distance.......and i dunno i guess, me personally, i get tempted by having that someone that is closer....and will be there for me.....to experince the little and big things by my side.

JookSingKid
u said it man.....i think i am full of expectations...and wants...i want her to be there....right there by my side to see the things i'm doing......to experince the things i go through........for **** sakes to experince the same weather we are having....hahahaha...i probably do have a lot of growing up to do....to realize that.....she won't be there......she can't......she has to do what she'z doing.......and together we have to make the best of what we have.....and let the good times roll.......we gotta learn that if we don't talk to each other for a couple of days, or something like that, it'z not our faults....it'z the circumstances......we just gotta make the best of it.

I Have no doubt when she comes back this thursday...that her and i can talk it out....and set up a better foundation. re evauluate somethings, to make it work!

Thanks guys

Civic Chick 69

Everyone is saying distance doesnt matter if you trueley and deeply love eachother.. but it is actually even harder to be away from eachother for soo long in you are sooo much in love...

When in love everyone seaks the love and security of always having someone there for comfort and reasurance that everything will be ok when something happens. You miss the presence of eachother, and long to hold them, feel them and kiss them. Some people are strong, and can deal with it, but others it can menatally kill them. A voice is ok to a certain extent, but you need to feel them and look into their eyes and kiss them for total comfort. I know how you guys feel. And it must be sooo hard if you guys really love eachother as much as you say you do.

I have a feeling that when you guys actually see eacother on the easter break your not gonne be able to let things go.. once you have that comfort you have been longing for from eachother, you guys will be overwelmed with emotions and be truely happy. The hard part will be when the other has to leave and you begin this journey of not seeing eachother for a long time again. But think about it.. even if its a few days of happiness you may get per year.. its a great reward in the end.. and if you guys can make it through it all, one day you guys can be togethr and know how strong your realtionship is for going throgh such ruff times..


I dont know if this makes any sence because im still half asleep... lol..

I think that the reward in the end will be Amazing if you guys hold on to something so special... try to keep in mind.. If you guys can make it through this.. You can make it through anything..

Notorious

Its always up to both of you to make things works. Long Distance Relationships are always workable, but its up to both of you to make things work. Every relationship has its ups and downs, but once again, its up to both of you to make things work You can always talk it over, and figure something out.

imported_dmacbo

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imported_JookSingKid

no worries dood.

heres a couple things to keep in mind.

If you guys lived closer to each other, do you think you would still see each other every day or even talk to each other everyday?

I'm the kind of guy that likes to have a couple days inbetween conversations and visits...

A big mistake of many couples is that they try to see each other everyday and spend every waking second with each other...

There still so much to do outside of any relationship, and you have to make time to do it.

Think the distance between brampton and new york is tough?

how about geting married, having kids, building a family...
try doing that for 40 years with a smile on your face everday.


interesting fact:
90% of all millionaires are married to their highschool sweethearts.

Civic Chick 69

I have seen my boyfriend practically everyday for the last 2 years that we have been together.. I spent a few weeks not seeing him but thats only because I was in Europe on Vacation...
Besides that the longets I think we have ever spent not seeing eachother is a one day tops... and its once every couple of months..

I dont see anything wrong with seeing eachother everyday.. the truth is when we dont see eachother we miss eachother soo much and i personallly cant wait to see him again.. Our realtionship is verrry strong.. and things couldnt be better...

imported_JookSingKid

everyone is different

imported_gatherer

very interesting I completely agree I used to be the type that was see them every day sort of thing .... now if I ever do find someone it'll be more of a whenever thing

looks like I'm going to be part of the 10%

Notorious

imported_dmacbo

only you two will know if it'll work or not, no point discussing your relationship on an internet board

Bliss

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