toyo

frig guys. she's at it again. my g/f and i went out for a year and a half, and we were almost engaged (i had just bought the ring) and she cheated on me.this was back in december.

well i ended up giving her another chance after that.
she did it again. with someone else.

after a while, i told her, one more chance, that's it. after her begging me to take he back cuz the second guy turned out to be a retard to date.
so i did, cuz i was totally in love with her still.
she kept talking to him behind my back and lieing to me about it.

thing is, both these guys, were both good friends of mine.
the first guy is fine now, we're cool.

my second friend, i got her to cheat on him with me...
haha, a little revenge.

but anyways, now she's stirring up **** between us again, now that everything is starting to wind down and we're starting to hang out again, she tells me he's talking **** about me behind my back and visa versa.
stupid bitch.

i just don't get it, she never used to be like this! why did she have to go mess her life up like this.
this is so stupid...
i'm so fed up with this, i gotta try and let go of everything.. but HOW??!!?!!

how do i get over her guys!!! i'm pissed at her, but deep down, there's still a soft spot for her!!!
someone slap me!

labatia

if i say somethign the girls on the forumn will get offended so ill just shut my mouth and say find someone esle..

PULOVR

imported_My Blue Si

I would have kicked her to the curb the first time she cheated on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater like you just experienced a couple times. How can you still have feelings for her if she doesen't care about you or respect you, she cheated on you serveral times for god sake, end of story. How can you get engaged with someone like this?

Time to think about what's going on here and realize she's not trustworthy and you should go out with a few buddy's and go for a drink or something, enjoy the single life for a bit and start dating again and find a trustworthy woman who cares about you and shows you some sort of respect instead of a snobby biatch who playz.

dm101081

If someone cheats on you once it's their fault, if someone cheats on you twice it's your's. Don't let it happen again. Find someone who will treat you with respect.

imported_Slvr-Bullet

Pimp her and get some $$ outta it

imported_gatherer

does Nospleeny have multiple sign in names? ....

if the search feature was enabled I'd showyou my advise there....

anyways if she cheats once then she ain't worth the hassle get rid of her there is more then one girl on this planent that could make you happy ...... how old are you? I'd bet your still young and that all she really wants to do is experince more then just one person before settling down ... almost engaged thats like handing someone a jail sentance for life .... but this is just my 2 cents.

bbarbulo

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Bahaha... Slvr_Bullet has the right idea LOL

Ya, I think it's pretty common sense to leave her and never look back. As to how you get over her... you may never, but just stay away from her and go find someone else.

toyo

yeah, i should of just dropped everything after the first time... i just wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt ya know?

i deleted everything off my computer today. all the emails from the last 2 years, pictures, everything. i blocked her and deleted her off my msn, as well as my email, i threw her address on the ignore list.

i figure if i don't have a single communication with her, she can't twist anything around and stuff. and i can get over her and get past this sh*t.

thanks for the help guys... i need it! heh...

imported_SylverCivic

listen.. i believe in second chances but you had to lay the ground rules and let her know that there is no third chance and that if she wants to still be with you she has to make the decision inside herself to change and be someone with pride and respect for herself and others.

then you tell her if she ever even gets interest in another guy in that sort of way to break up with you atleast a week before she does anything with the other guy and that youll do the same if another girl comes along.



Too bad you didn't lay the rules and stick to them.. girls need to be told **** inorder to keep them under control.

SiR Power

bbarbulo

iTrader: (2)

With so many beautiful NICE girls, I can't understand why you'd go through the torture. Oh yeah... I've gone through this withdrawal... no contact is the way to go... you still see **** that will remind you of her, but just shrug it off. Think for a second about how she cheated on you and that will erase all the fond memories right out of your memory (at least for that moment)

NoSpleeny

Does it look like I have women problems still?
I don't let girls take advantage anymore. If they're an *** to me.. I'll kick them to the curb and they can walk home from wherever they are.

I've had so many mothers bitch at me cuz I left their daughters far from home... "Kent.. if you take my daughter out.. you have to make sure she gets home safely!! UNDERSTAND?!"
No dumb h0... If she bugs me.. I'll kick her right to the curb.


As per the girl involved on this thread... I'll say ditto to everybody elses' posts.

Diamond Bebe

^^^ Thats True
I dont know how anyone can cheat and still look
into the persons eyes and kiss them ..

thats wat you get from me ..

toyo

hmm... what a situation.

yeah, i told her everything the second time. you do it again, don't ever expect to hear from me again. yada yada yada, i was pretty straight up with everything.

but then i went back on it and gave her a 3rd chance... stupid nathan...

but anyways, now i have to sort all this crap out with mark, my buddy. cuz he's all pissed off cuz he thinks that i'm playing her, and that i'm talking **** about him or whatever!!! we got into a little scrap last night. scraped up my knee on some pavement, but that's about all that happened.
i just showed up and he was all pissed off and i had no idea why. he told me to leave i said fine, f@## you and he came after me once i got in my car.
heh heh... i pulled him like right in the car as soon as he grabbed me. and he got out so i kicked my door open and went for him. we just basicly grabbed at each other, no punches or anything.

but it's so dumb b/c he's taking her word for it, after she's lied to both of us umpteen times!!! like at least ask me before you assume it's the truth!!!! look at who it's coming from!?!

jeeze... so hopefully he finds out the truth, then i don't think he'll be pissed off at me.
he better not be anyways.

f*ckin drama man, i feel like i'm in grade friggin 8!
this is so stupid.
that's why i just cut all communication. i'm out!

bbarbulo

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Tell your buddy to think with his head, not his hardon. Just think, there is tons of chix you can bone... why are you both after the same one. Even if my buddy's girl came knocking on my door, I'd call him and tell him to come pick up his ho... cuz most guys won't believe it if you just tell them. My friends girl started kissing me one night, I was like WTF. I told him, he didn't believe it they went out for like a year and a 1/2, and in the mean time was seen kissing ANOTHER guy... he didn't belive THAT... and then finally he dumped her later on.

NoSpleeny

Men think through their twig and giggle berries only?

SpikeyLee

Twig and giggle berries?!?!?! LOL

But back on topic... you've given her more than her fair share of chances and you got screwed over every single time. She should be put on the curb like yesterday's garbage and left there. If you wanna talk to her then your only words to her should be along the lines of "Don't let the door hit your *** on the way out."

Seriously, she's no good for you!! It's hard to do, but let her go!

bbarbulo

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I don't know what you got in your pants, but I hope it's more than a twig and berries? Otherwise, there is a lot of 15 and 16 year olds out there with a bitter first experience LOL yes, I know it's a figure of speech.

imported_JookSingKid

ahh just keep dating her, i'm sure things will work out.





NOT!

Tell that bitch she's hoe' and her word are pure poison!
"That woman is the devil!" Tell your friend that, and tell him the both of you have been tricked by her evilness.

If she comes around throw holy water and goats blood at her, and state in confidence!

"BACK TO HELL DEMON!"

I hate it when some **** break ups a group of guys.