Need advice please, met a reallly nice girl.
23-Apr-2009, 10:03 PM
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Need advice please, met a reallly nice girl.
Hey peeps well heres the story,
Im on vacation in New Brunswick.. was only suppose to stay here for 2 weeks.. anyways im on my 4th week here..
I met this girl last week and shes like amazing.. but she has a bad rep for cheating. And she had other boyfriends she moved in with but it never worked out,
also she had a miscarriage 3 months ago..
Thats kinda red-flagging me, but Im really falling for her and I want her to move to Toronto and she wants to come and go to school there, but I only met her last week and I told her we are moving too fast but shes so confident of what she wants..
She said when shes finished school(2 weeks) shell move down.
(I have really bad luck with girls from Toronto)
Shes 18 soon turning 19, and Im 21..
WHAT THE **** DO I DO?
Im on vacation in New Brunswick.. was only suppose to stay here for 2 weeks.. anyways im on my 4th week here..
I met this girl last week and shes like amazing.. but she has a bad rep for cheating. And she had other boyfriends she moved in with but it never worked out,
also she had a miscarriage 3 months ago..
Thats kinda red-flagging me, but Im really falling for her and I want her to move to Toronto and she wants to come and go to school there, but I only met her last week and I told her we are moving too fast but shes so confident of what she wants..
She said when shes finished school(2 weeks) shell move down.
(I have really bad luck with girls from Toronto)
Shes 18 soon turning 19, and Im 21..
WHAT THE **** DO I DO?
Last edited by sirux; 23-Apr-2009 at 10:09 PM.
23-Apr-2009, 10:09 PM
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i would have redflagged when I saw that she was pregnant at the age of 18, and not done school? Is she ready to support a family with no education = no money..
And finally, if she does get pregnant and your with her.. are you willing to be a father figure..
I would say, that's a lot of responsibility for a young lad like yourself..
And finally, if she does get pregnant and your with her.. are you willing to be a father figure..
I would say, that's a lot of responsibility for a young lad like yourself..
23-Apr-2009, 10:10 PM
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23-Apr-2009, 10:15 PM
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i would have redflagged when i saw that she was pregnant at the age of 18, and not done school? Is she ready to support a family with no education = no money..
And finally, if she does get pregnant and your with her.. Are you willing to be a father figure..
I would say, that's a lot of responsibility for a young lad like yourself..
And finally, if she does get pregnant and your with her.. Are you willing to be a father figure..
I would say, that's a lot of responsibility for a young lad like yourself..
still!!! What the deuce is going through that head of yours?!!??!?
23-Apr-2009, 10:17 PM
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Im the one offering to get her to come live with me since I cant stay where I am at now.. in new brunswick as theres no work etc, I told her Ill come stay in new brunswick with her and she told me we can work it out,
Its not like shes using me to go to Toronto when she already has a sister in Toronto that she could already stay at.
Its not like shes using me to go to Toronto when she already has a sister in Toronto that she could already stay at.
23-Apr-2009, 10:33 PM
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it seems this girl is promiscuous....so why don't u jump on the train?
all jokes aside...if she's moved in with 10 guys and was pregnant at the age of 18, do you think you're going to change her? ur kidding urself...
what ur feeling is lust right now....
once u come back to T.O you'll forget about her....
sex can wait....masterbate
all jokes aside...if she's moved in with 10 guys and was pregnant at the age of 18, do you think you're going to change her? ur kidding urself...
what ur feeling is lust right now....
once u come back to T.O you'll forget about her....
sex can wait....masterbate
23-Apr-2009, 11:28 PM
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Yeah man, honestly your falling for her so your starting to rationalize everything, but its not a good situation. She sounds like trouble. Remember that you can't change anyone, only they can change themselves.
23-Apr-2009, 11:35 PM
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Well she is the one who admitted to everything and shes not taking me for a ride shes going to help pay rent and she seems so serious, I told her to slow the **** down tho.
I really like her, and ****.. I dont want to lose her..
Ill see what happens... worse comes to worse shell go back to new brunswick.
I really like her, and ****.. I dont want to lose her..
Ill see what happens... worse comes to worse shell go back to new brunswick.
24-Apr-2009, 12:16 AM
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ill tell u from experience (unfortunately)
once you start dating a girl like that every breath you take every move your make will upset her and she'll cry and complain and tell her friends on you and you'll seem like a big jerk when all you did was something insignificantly small
dont even bother hitting it she (no offence) probably has so many STD's her vaginas a medical dictionary TRUST ME RUN LUST IS EVIL
once you start dating a girl like that every breath you take every move your make will upset her and she'll cry and complain and tell her friends on you and you'll seem like a big jerk when all you did was something insignificantly small
dont even bother hitting it she (no offence) probably has so many STD's her vaginas a medical dictionary TRUST ME RUN LUST IS EVIL
24-Apr-2009, 12:45 AM
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are you not comprehending what you are telling us?
she cheats, she's been pregnant, she's moved in with other boyfriends..... and you want to attempt this because........................................... .?
you need a kick in the *****! there are plenty of other nice girls out there dude
your not going to change her all thats going to happen, is well, since you've already fallen for her, shes just going to break your heart
24-Apr-2009, 01:01 AM
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yeaaa dude....everyone is giving you the same advice, and I stand the same...young girls are trouble trust me..I am only 23, I know exactly what your feeling..and all I can say is...stay away, nothing good will come of it! if your just gonna sleep with her sure..but you already have a thing for her..so stay the hell away!
24-Apr-2009, 01:26 AM
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Thats kinda red-flagging me, but Im really falling for her and I want her to move to Toronto and she wants to come and go to school there, but I only met her last week and I told her we are moving too fast but shes so confident of what she wants..
She said when shes finished school(2 weeks) shell move down.
She said when shes finished school(2 weeks) shell move down.
Make her pay for gas. lol
On a serious note here, hindsight is always 20/20. Don't be a fool. If it looks like a dog, barks like a dog, eats like a dog, and acts like a dog, it's probably a dog. =p If you wanna give her a "second" (more like 4th) chance, then proceed with caution.
Don't be stupid.
24-Apr-2009, 01:39 AM
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what the deuce lol it must be nice to be so young and have no clue . run forest run!!!
