Need advice please, met a reallly nice girl.
#104
oh dear, dude you are in for a rather large shock when you discover that a relationship with someone really needs more surity than "I don't know why"
Just my opinion (although you did ask for it) I think you're making a mistake by moving so quickly. Why couldn't you have left her there for a month and given yourself and her some time apart to think it through?
I live by a saying that I pride myself on - "let my yeses be yeses and my no's be no's." I think you might be starting out on the back foot here.
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#109
oh dear, dude you are in for a rather large shock when you discover that a relationship with someone really needs more surity than "I don't know why"
Just my opinion (although you did ask for it) I think you're making a mistake by moving so quickly. Why couldn't you have left her there for a month and given yourself and her some time apart to think it through?
I live by a saying that I pride myself on - "let my yeses be yeses and my no's be no's." I think you might be starting out on the back foot here.
Just my opinion (although you did ask for it) I think you're making a mistake by moving so quickly. Why couldn't you have left her there for a month and given yourself and her some time apart to think it through?
I live by a saying that I pride myself on - "let my yeses be yeses and my no's be no's." I think you might be starting out on the back foot here.
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#113
I think everyone who made fun of her (including me) should be ashamed
Your blatantly bashing an 18 year old girl and ur saying this realizing her boyfriend is reading this
I mean ya she's not my type but I have a gf who is and u guys have gf's ( well some) also how would u like it if I called your gf an ugly ***** you'd get pissed but before that you'd be hurt
Whether it's 1 day or 1 year our gf's are still important to us and most would get hurt if our gf's were talked down upon
So honestly dude whatever happens happens good luck to u and sorry if I said anything hurtful
Your blatantly bashing an 18 year old girl and ur saying this realizing her boyfriend is reading this
I mean ya she's not my type but I have a gf who is and u guys have gf's ( well some) also how would u like it if I called your gf an ugly ***** you'd get pissed but before that you'd be hurt
Whether it's 1 day or 1 year our gf's are still important to us and most would get hurt if our gf's were talked down upon
So honestly dude whatever happens happens good luck to u and sorry if I said anything hurtful
#114
brucefee, ya... fair warning has been issued.
#115
i think you should be ashamed for telling people what emotions they should be having.
the OP is basically saying her life is that of a stereotypical trailerpark girl and he wants her to move to the big city with him.
he knows it's a bad idea and posted here hoping people would say "it's a wonderful idea Jim."
problem is, the internets and random girl advice don't go together that well.
he is following his heart which is 'cute', and you shouldn't judge someone for being pregnant unless you're a devout christian, muslim, jew, or have a similair set of infantile beliefs.
we all enjoy sex, sometimes, the tadpoles escape and hit the jack pot. that could happen to anyone.
but to move across the province for someone you met for 4 hours, sounds childish and immature... because it is.
but hey, 3 years from now, it'll be a good story and life experience for both of them when she's moved back and they're both over each other.
#117
okay honestly i think that w.e. this guy is doing is stupid IMO but you live and you learn i guess hes a dumbass for posting pics and a story of her and not discussing this topic with one of his close friends but maybe he doesnt have alot
all im saying is that making fun on a girl online where her bf can read kinda hurts
all im saying is that making fun on a girl online where her bf can read kinda hurts
#118
"You can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can't take the out the trash".
He had a touch of the mong so he usually mixed his metaphors.
#119
okay honestly i think that w.e. this guy is doing is stupid IMO but you live and you learn i guess hes a dumbass for posting pics and a story of her and not discussing this topic with one of his close friends but maybe he doesnt have alot
all im saying is that making fun on a girl online where her bf can read kinda hurts
all im saying is that making fun on a girl online where her bf can read kinda hurts
#120
I also think that the majority of responses were commenting on the fact that moving so quickly and drastically was a bad idea. Only a few commented on the girl. Yeah we all made assumptions about her, but everyone does that every day...
At the end of the day, he asked for attention, and he got it.