kerr_bear

hey guys... i was wondering if i could get some perspectives on this... both guys and gals would be much appreciated!
ok, i've been dating my boyfriend for the past 9 months, its my 2nd serious relationship. anyway, as most of you know, i was accepted to brock earlier this past week, and am super psyched about it. my boyfriend however isn't. we keep fighting over and over about it and then today i heard he cheated on me the night he found out with this girl he used to date... he denies it but i dunno... should i believe it? like, could he have been venting out his anger over my acceptance, or is it just some old fling being stupid? please please help!

Cynikal.Mindset

wow...this thread has "MESSY" written all over it

imported_Zyepher

This is something you and your boyfriend should deal with, in all honesty you should not come to tcc looking for relationship help

imported_loudsubz

lol

umm how old is your BF? and where do you live? if you were like 500 miles away i could see it being a little bit of a problem, but my gf goes to brock and I see her every other weekend, its not a big deal. If you 2 are mature enough this is nothing to get over.

imported_climax

well I do not know you or your boyfriend.. so who knows about the cheating..
but about moving away.. I think that if you guys are in love or you guys are really committed to eachother then It shouldnt matter how far you move apart and fighting over it is immature..
If you do not have trust do you really have a relationship?? and if you cant stay together just because your moving away for a bit? do you guys really love eachother?
and if you find out he did cheat.. dump him.. there is no excuse for cheating..
thats just my 2 cents...

kerr_bear

well i've been trying to sort it out.. but that doesn't appear to be working too well... guys tend to be a little bit more immature and stubborn than girls... i was just looking for a bit of advice... but no worries thanks anyway

imported_climax

good luck with it.. and we replied at the same time

imported_JusBlaze

You should just **** another guy and show him how it feels. Trust me after my girl did that to me i stopped cheating on her.

kerr_bear

lol well thanks.

imported_climax

lol wtf...
dont have to sleep around on him because he did it to you.. then you become a *****.. just dump him.. no excuse for cheating..
if your mature enough you guys can work out the distance and if you really love each other..
i said that in my previous post but i think it just got ignored hahaha because of timing..

pink1

booooooo
dump him

Surfofpink

ok here it is... whether he cheated or not .. dump his ***. The minute you move away for school he is going to cheat anyways. Get rid of him now... have a great summer then go to school single.. honestly there is no other way to do it. Be a PIMP girl... you don't need his sorry ***. Guys are just unecessary liability

imported_climax

^^ what about tha ones that buy u things.. lol

imported_Promoking

Plenty of guys to bang at Brock. School's more important. Long distance isn't fun, and never works.

1Sic4Dr

Kerr Bear l know l am not the best person to be giving advice...but do what u think is rite......u have all ur life to find mr. rite and if he is getting angry at u for going to get a better education then l don't think he is rite for u...........

imported_loudsubz

the same could be said about girls...or alot of other things as well, but with this post I feel the rest of the thread is going in the dumpster

imported_Shazza

BAH! leave the dawg! ure young! go to skool whereever the **** u want! dont let some ******** tell u what to do with ur life. do wutever u want whereever u want. if u dont, u'll regret it fo sure...truss me. i cant believe he's trying to hold u back...he's supposed to be supportive...if that happened to me, i'd kick him to the the curb no doubt. so like wut, he expects u to stay back with him and lose out on an education? and wut r u gonna do when u guys break up? huh? u'll be left with nothing except a broken heart and resentment.

Surfofpink

the newest addition to my "gifts from men who love me" collection. I bet you all can guess who this one is from

kerr_bear

lol you guys are right. i guess he figures since he's done school and whatever, its all cool. i dunno. but surf, shazza, and pink, i am definately thinking about your advice! thanks

Surfofpink

I dont know about shazza and pink but girl when you get to st.kitts for brock I will hook you up with my number and you will have the best time of your life.. trust!