Warrior Saint

Now..before I begin..i'm sure this post will offend people...so viewer discretion is advised.


Ok...so how many of you, could SERIOUSLY date a girl/guy, knowing that they've had past sexual partners... knowing the cute girl you see, has seen her share of *****.... and the for the girls..knowing the guy who is asking you out...has had his fare share of girls.

Am I the only one who has trouble with this? How do you walk a girl down the isle, knowing that other guys out there have had their way with her... same for the girls as well. It's not just a matter of how many partners..but knowing they went out with someone for a few years...that's hundreds of times they've had sex. How do you people deal with this? Does this create trust problems? I've been thinking about this a lot lately...who knows...maybe i'm just over-analyzing things. Are you supposed to just say 'let the past be the past'?

How would you feel if your wife's first boyfriend...the guy who popped her..ended up buying a house next to your's one day?

ahhh....screwed up **** this is.

cibs

For me it would be taking into account that the past is the past, and the present and future you have together is what really matters.

imported_ERTW

times are a'changing my lad...

if you think you will marry a virgin, you are being naive...

dont tell me that you havent had your share of girls... taking this into accoutn, how can you expect a girl not to have had her share of guys?

keep one thing in mind, sex and love are seperate things...

J

yes, its her past and has absolutely nothing to do with you, so just get it out of your mind

Cynikal.Mindset

cant turn a ho into a housewife

imported_corcoran_chris

DUDE honestly I think like that all the time


my gf has been with people before, I havent, she was my first....and becasue of that I think about it all the time. But the past is the past and everyone has history- nothing you can do. only way you wont have a history is if you dont act in the present, which will leave your life full of regrets and no experiance.

imported_Dawson

i know exactly what your saying man but i think that guys think that cause they have the greatest girl but you always look for something wrong about them its just human nature i wish i didnt hvae to think or hear about it

GinoLicious

I think about it a lot bro. Thats why i date virgins... Well i am 16 so it sall good there are some around. Past is past i guess you could say. Its hard to realize that and act like that, easy to say it. But sooner or later, and slowly you will accept that fact. Like i have.

imported_Dawson

yeah but thinkin about some other guy slammin your women gets me sooooooo pissed

GinoLicious

See if he slammed her before o well. THats life they dated... But if she slamms him when ur dating, now we have a problem. Now seriously, if you think about this a lot.. Which i do as well no worries, it just means we have trust issues.

Warrior Saint

ok...phew..i thought i'd get a pasting with this post...but you people do understand. Just the thought that the girl has dated another guy for 2 or 3 years... thats three years of sex.. that's A LOT Of cranking... three christmas's together...three VALENTINES together...three Easter's together...6 birthdays.....a whole lot of memories. the girl has been slapped around...from behind...on top...all different positions... there's nothing she can do with you, that she hasn't already done. Worst of all... as your cuddling with her... the guy who popped her, is probably bragging to his buddies....i'm trying so hard to get over this thought.... the girl in question is super hot as well. so i figure..the options are..accept it.... hopefully the guy who nailed her..his son won't be nailing your daughter as well... be alone.. or accept a crazy woman. As for me...I have very little baggage...a carry on case is all I hold.... lol....and I could probably fit in a fanny pack...lol.

crazy, alone or a girl with luggage. man..those options don't look good.

GINOLICIOUS..... some advice. Find a nice girl.... MARRY HER, and don't look back. So when you sleep at night...you can close your eyes..knowing, she's not thinking of some past fling. For the rest of us..may God help us!!!

GinoLicious

LOL... Thankyou for your tip.. I think i will follow it. Damnit dude, this post has been thinking now. :@ ahhhh... im going to be single now for ever..

Warrior Saint

GINO...UR YOUNG...grab a young girl you get along with, and RUN.

GinoLicious

I'm so picky with women it aint even funny, no jokes. I almost had this one girl, then i got so fuked up, didnt want comitment and right before we were going to go out i broke it all off with her. Haven't talked to since.

imported_corcoran_chris

^^ I DISAGREE WITH THIS TIP

here is my situation

I think the way you do about my gf, her with other guys, NOT her WANTING her past bfs back and wanting ot have sex with them, I just think all the stuff Im doing with her...she has done before.

but HER side of the story is she is worried I WANT to have sex with someone else, I only did it with her, so she feels I will want to explore, try new girls etc. But this is not the case at all. if anything a girl with SLIGHT baggage ( aka sex with long term bf is fine, sex with guys after getting drunk at parties...bad ) is good becuase they know whats out their, they know what they want and if they are MORE then happy with you and say they NEVER want to be with anyone else ebcause you fufill everything.....then isnt that the greatest compliment?

Gunmetalef

What if your wife is doing her own thing on the side while you're at work???
cuz remember...she WILL NEVER forget her first....u know....

civicnation

You make the girl your "housewife" and then turn her into your personal "hoe"


and yes i know saying personal negates the definition of a hoe, but that is as good as i can say it, lol. get with an innocent type girl and then open her up, lol (literally and figuratively) LOL

imported_JDMman

i think some of you have been watching that show cheaters too much...

seriously... just chill.... i think about **** like that too sometimes but its not gonna get you anywhere.. all its gonna do is stress you out.... take it as it comes and same goes for her... just make sure that when she takes it as it comes she likes it ....more so then ever before... lol.... you know what i mean though... stop stressing and live life.... just be glad you have someone that is there with you... and if they cheat on you... just be glad they did before you got married..

Cynikal.Mindset

if u think about this stuff yall need to go out and slam more girls...like seriously, as long as she's clean and loves you who the hell cares what the hell she did in the past...if u slammed nuff before u settled down ur also the guy bragging about how u tossed whatever girl around the room like u were the man...and she has some boyfriend now thats dealing with her case, its all life and if u get caught up on **** like this ur gonna marry a fat ugly broad (that has prolly been bronco busted a few times for good measure)...be a pimp, get women slam em and call it a life, when u settle down know that u did ur job and relax with your woman

dingus88

ya every girl you meet from 18 on has been slammed so hard she could not walk right for day's...this is fact. SHe has has so much jizz shot in her it's rediculous. I mean either get caught up and worry about it or accept it and move on. I mean the last chick I was banging I actually was crazy for we were very close for years before the banging but one of my buddies popped her cherry like years ago and she had been with 2 more guy's. DId I care NO I focused on what we were doing yada yada, she was clean innocent, and cute still so WTF are you guy's worried about GEt OVER it...I think it might be that you are young, when I was young I use to think that way.

ON a side note this excludes ditch pig *** dumpsters which there are alot of. THose kind are not worth anything and deserve every horrible thing that happens to them.