imported_doggy69247

u guys are ****ed who think oo no she ****ed some other guy so what


u have eaten a sandwitch with the same hand u have jerked off with



get a life who wants a virgin it would be nice 2 know that u are the first but so what its noat asif u are sucking his dick or its like 2 mins after he was blowing inside her


u are the one with the ishues u have the baggage not her if u had been with another girl and this girl asked u out and then found out u had been with another girl and then pumper your *** wtf get real this is the year 2000 my friend not the 50s


and who is 2 say that wen u are maried 2 your virgin that she aint going 2 have an afair without u knowing

rrspexpress

alot of ppl feel the way you do, i think most of them are conservatives though, to be quite honest. the whole abstinence thing is quite an interesting and hotly debated issue.

in my opinion, if you really believe in abstinence and that stuff then you should go after those types of girls.

but if you really like the girl your with you need to talk to her and get it out of your system. then go from there

remember, there's no right or wrong

imported_kIeRaN

i used to feel the same way, now i never think about it. i mean, who cares, uve been with girls before, shes been with guys before. All that matters is what u have now. Youre probably not gonna be together for the rest of your life anyways

imported_PRoCiVic

And you covered everything


actually dude, think of it as 3 types of girls


1 the Virgin (The girl that doesn't want to be like number 2 )

2 the Commited (the girl that had sex only because she thought the guy she's with will one day mary her) - well sometimes its not always like that... Better luck next time!

3 The HOE (The one that's just trying to make a quick 20 + tax) no need to wait a whole 30 days for this one, its always ready to serve.


so it all depends on what you want.

imported_JookSingKid

How about having some confidence, and not letting your insecurities rule you...

1niceSi

I think you're worrying way too much.

Younes Si

If you keep on thinking about this over and over, your never going to settle down, you need to relax and go ahead with what your doing man, you can't do nothing about the past and who railed her before

bbarbulo

iTrader: (2)

by the time you hit 18 or so, you should know every girl you're likely to be with has been slammed every which way possible. if you can't take that, you have the option of remaining a virgin for life. it's one of those things you gotta deal with. me, I like to give the girl at least a month after her last sexual encounter. that way at least she has her cycle, which in my opinion is like a natural clensing process....

imported_Zyepher

Meh its only sex...i would be pissed to discover she has been a$$-fudging :O plus i've had my fair share of vaginas so who am I to judge?

BengaliBadBoy

Dont ask dont tell simple

imported_gatherer

you have a way to active imagination

personally I didn't care when I was dating a Chick that had previous sexual partners when I was still a virgin... but hey I boned her after making she all was clean if you know what I mean ... and you know what experience is something not to be looked down apon

imported_Torrey

Sam hit the nail on the head.

imported_Bruce Fee

Telling someone to get married young and to the first girl they find is just about the stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life.

You'd think with all the divorces running rampant in society, one would tell a younger person to not rush into things and make sure they really want to get spend their lives with who they want to marry.

Marriage is an institution that is dying. It is not something you have to do either.

Warrior Saint

Bruce Fee, It is not that marriage is dying..the larger issue is that it is in fact, our morals and values which have taken a turn for the worse. In the course of our society turning toward a culture dedicated to death, violence and sex, marriage is not viewed with the same respect as it once was...but this does not mean that I will give in. There will always be people in our society who are good and just, and as long as they remain, the institution of marriage will survive. How beautiful it would be, for on your wedding night to 'be' with your wife. To make it something special and important. But heck..if you were banging the night before... than what difference is there, on your wedding night? Nothing. One parter, is one to many partners in my opinion. The only exception I would make is if a girl/guy was repentant of their previous actions. And I mean, to be having tears of repentance, otherwise I can't handle it..and I don't understand how anyone else can. Fine we all make mistakes, but if one is happy of their past experiences, of the girs/guys they have nailed, than I don't want them to be an important part of my life. Thats how I personally feel..and I think most people feel the same way. Most of us, just want to ignore it, and most people do a good job at that.

electronblue

iTrader: (1)

This is too funny...

My take on the situation with husband, doesn't matter how many came before me, as long as I'm the only one while you're with me

I agree with bruce fee, getting married young is stupid.

dingus88

LOL warrior saint...dude you think that "being" with your wife for the first time is even special at all....think of it this way...it will be the worst sex ever cause you both won't know wtf you are doing etc. I mean wtf when I lost my virginity it was fare from "special" it was not a big deal at all. Before you are married you want to make sure you have a healthy relationship sexually mentally physically, what happens if you married a dead lay..lol

THere are nice normal girls out there that are innocent clean and yes may have had sex with a few guy's before you.

[1sL0CiviC]

lol....i wont comment, as i got nothing to say here, but i will throw in 1 or 2 topics that relate to this...

Arranged marriages? (almost all brides are virgins)

Pre-marital sex being a religious sin. (Islam, etc)

~Cultural and Religious views~

imported_L85

if you are so worried you can always pull some r kelly shyt, since girls are losing it younger and younger, just get a 9 yr old so you can be sure.

i'm jk

imported_Bruce Fee

i thought losing my virginity would be some sort of experience from the movies.

instead, there were gobs of lubrication being put on all over the place and most of the time was spent trying to figure out how to get things working and into the right place.

at least it becomes a natural reaction and you can rely on instinct after you relax a little and don't think too much about it.

some people here are hypocrites... they only want virgin's but they're not... haha.. they pretend they're saints.. but such a person may have even had his own mother walk in on him.



not believing in marriage does not mean one has lost the moral path. A man and woman do not need a fairy godmother blessing their marriage, nor do they need a government/king to recognize their love for eachother.

Love needs nothing but the emotions invovled to be true. Everything else is a creation of humankind.

VikJae

warrior saint...

buddy i TOTALLY agree with you. im VERY picky with girls and thats one of the things i look for. the girl HAS to be either a virgin or have like maybe one or two sexual partners MAX before. the thought of kissing some girl or ****** some girl that some other guy previously pumped sickens me. its such a turn off. so disgusting. i cant describe how sick it makes me. hence the reason also why its so hard for me to find a vik-quality-girlfriend.

i dunno man dont think its wierd, its not. if you dont want to stick ur dick into a ***-recepticle then dont. i wouldnt. its old-fashioned and stuff but who cares, at least this way you know that when you finally meet a girl who measures up, u wont be sitting there wondering all sorts of crazy stuff.... and like girls always remember their first time and stuff, u want her to be thinking about like joe-blow down the road? dont think so buddy.