imported_Bruce Fee

so sex is fun...

some prefer casual good times.. other people prefer relationships.. whatever.. that's not what this is about...

i would think most people have at least one friend who cheats on a significant other... what i want to know is how you can trust this friend.

going around from woman to woman... that's fine... but when a guy leads on a woman... 'baby.. you mean the world to me' blah blah blah... and keeps it up for months.. and he's off getting his piece wet everywhere he can.... he's breaking her trust big time... he's a liar, a cheat, and a piece of ****.

Can you truly call this man your boy? can you really trust him? can you really be sure he's real to you?

bros before hos sure. but he's not treating her as such.. how do you know he's really your bro?

imported_QUICKONTHEGAS

I have a friend who's like that...cheats on his girlfriend every chance he gets...I just don't put myself in a possition where he could screw me around.
I have another friend that I would trust with my life and I just found out that he's been cheating on his girl...I would have never thought he would, but now I second guess everything he tells me because of it.

imported_Moe_Mentum

Not all guys sweet talk other girls when they cheat on their GF's some girls are just hoes and don't care whether or not the guy they sleep with have gf's.. Not saying its right but, I can't see why I wouldn't trust one of my friends who cheats, they are my friend for a reason. If they were a serial killer, then I would have my doubts

imported_Bruce Fee

if your friend tells a girl he loves her.. they have been going out for years... planning a future.. and he's out banging whoever he can.. he's a liar and does not care about breaking his woman's trust.

i'm not talking about casually seeing some broad and then hitting up some other ones on road trips.

If the person is disloyal to this girl who loves him and sucks him off to make him happy, how can you expect him to be loyal to you, the guy who gets drunk with him?

the serial killer now, he might never lie and ish.. he just might like killing people he doesn't know.. .i would be able to trust him.

imported_Solid_turk

honesty is the policy... never cheated on any of ma g/fs and never will! theres a reason i go out with a girl and thats cause i really want to be with them so why waste hers and my time by going out and cheating on her! and i have no respect for any guy that does this!

imported_GoldBadge

I've never been tempted to cheat on a girlfriend. That's why I dated them, because I want to be with THEM...right?

dingus88

well that's life man...and females also cheat man that's life.

I mean I knew a chick cheated on her bf with me then never told him and broke up with him for some stupid reason and didn't tell him so she would look better

And because of that I never really trusted her deep down inside, even though I cared about her etc.

but seriously it's not like your bro is bangin you or anything...I mean my good bro has cheated on gf's in the past and I still trust him completely.. .why because he is my bro

IT's 2 different things being in a relationship with a chick and not trusting her casue she cheated on her last bf with you, and your bro cheating on his gf give me a break guy's.

Turbo4U

So true.
I have a freind who cheated on his girl, long story short there still together because she has alot of patience and she really does love him. He dosnt realize how lucky he is to have some-one like that but thats just my opinion.

imported_Bruce Fee

why would your friend not break your trust but a girls?

what about for a business deal?
maybe a rap contract with sony?

dingus88

because I'm not nagging him he's not banging me ..lol

I"m not an annoying gf...and frankly he woudl discuss it with me and I woudl always give him advise on it so...

Gallagher

I dont know anyone like that

imported_GoldBadge

Because business deals, record contracts, and buddies all don't have the special body parts that a woman does.

VikJae

ummm.. i think somewhere it got off topic but i think bruce meant something like:
your friends gf trusts him and he leads her to believe that he is trustworthy as well however, he cheats on her and lies on her constantly while she believes him to be trustworthy..

i wouldnt be able to trust this guy. i mean if he is capable of telling someone "i trust you" - "i love you" - "i want to be with you" and all that, and at the same time, do the opposite, whats stopping him from doing that to you sometime in the future? obviously it shows that when the chance arises to suit his best interests, he would take it. therefore: no i wouldnt trust him but hey, thats just me.
ive been cheated on b4 and i have no idea how anyone like that could be considered trustworthy.

dingus88

ya we all knwo you have sex with your guy friends..

wow I mean call me crazy but my bro's generally never tell me this maybe your's do but mine don't

Gallagher

LMAO, what would I do without ur stupid comments ?




PS: hey there hot stuff

05civicLX

i dont understand guys who cheat on their gfs...why would you even have a gf if you know your gonna cheat on her? why not just break up with her first and that way you can do watever **** you want, without feelin guilty? as was said earlier, you have a gf cuz you want to be with her ONLY, the whole commitment thing...

i have no respect for guys/girls who cheat on their significant others, EXCEPT if they're gettin treated like crap, then i'd understand

LDY KLLA

that's it right there... it's a different type of relationship between you and your boy...

I've never had trust issues with any of my guy friends... and most of them cheat at one time or another... and yes, so have I...

VikJae

dinguss88...
moron, i guess the idea that i was referring to a guy telling his gf that he loves her, he wants to be with her, etc. wasnt obvious to you. ok so now ill make it obvious for your soecial mind:

"wouldnt be able to trust this guy. i mean if he (boyfriend) is capable of telling someone (girlfriend) "i trust you" - "i love you" - "i want to be with you" and all that, and at the same time, do the opposite, whats stopping him (boyfriend) from doing that (the act of betrayal) to you(friend) sometime in the future? obviously it shows that when the chance arises to suit his(boyfriend) best interests, he (boyfriend again) would take it. therefore: no i (friend) wouldnt trust him(cheating boyfriend) but hey, thats just me(outsider looking in).

05civicLX
i totally agree with you man, except if you are being treated like crap, get the *** out u know? why stick around and cheat? people have no morals these days.... and some people have no intelligence either but hey, no one said its a perfect world

LDY KLLA

well personally, I didnt cheat for the sex cuz I can get plenty of that from my gf... I cheated for the thrill of it.. sneaking around was fun...

I liked playing James Bond...

imported_GoldBadge

So maybe the real reason for youcheating is because if you get caught, a person's feelings are the only things at stake.

Where as if you were to sneak around like James Bond and try something like embezelling money, then the consequences would be imprisonment, etc...

So, basically, cheating (for some people) is a way to get the feeling that you're sneaking aound like a pro, but without the devastating consequences to yourself.