problem with a girl
22-Mar-2006, 11:36 AM
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problem with a girl
okay so my girlfriend is mad at me i think.
about a year ago, me and my girlfrend broke up cuz we got into a huge fight.
and after that we kinda started talking again and like chilling and fooling around and ****.
during that time, i messed around with some other girl. then we got into a fight and i yelled at her a lot and now she wont ever talk to me, so shes done with.
lately, my girlfriend's been drilling me trying to find out if **** happened. so i told my girlfriends friend to ask my girlfriend if she would be mad if somehting happened and i told her not to make it obvious.
3 minutes later i get a call from my girlfriend and she said if i tell her the truth its better and she wont be mad.
... both of the bitches r liars and now shes mad and wont talk to me.
shes mad cuz i was foolin around with this other girl in the process of getting back with her or soemthing
i tried callin her and im was just like hey girl whats up and **** and she was like "dont hey girl me" and hung up lol
what can i say to make her un-mad at me? i dont care if i have to lie or anyhting.
about a year ago, me and my girlfrend broke up cuz we got into a huge fight.
and after that we kinda started talking again and like chilling and fooling around and ****.
during that time, i messed around with some other girl. then we got into a fight and i yelled at her a lot and now she wont ever talk to me, so shes done with.
lately, my girlfriend's been drilling me trying to find out if **** happened. so i told my girlfriends friend to ask my girlfriend if she would be mad if somehting happened and i told her not to make it obvious.
3 minutes later i get a call from my girlfriend and she said if i tell her the truth its better and she wont be mad.
... both of the bitches r liars and now shes mad and wont talk to me.
shes mad cuz i was foolin around with this other girl in the process of getting back with her or soemthing
i tried callin her and im was just like hey girl whats up and **** and she was like "dont hey girl me" and hung up lol
what can i say to make her un-mad at me? i dont care if i have to lie or anyhting.
22-Mar-2006, 11:38 AM
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oh and when we got back together after our fight is kinda hazy, cuz we just started back and **** after a week or so.
i keep sayin how technically we were broken up, and she keeps sayin im a jackass and we werent really broken up
i keep sayin how technically we were broken up, and she keeps sayin im a jackass and we werent really broken up
22-Mar-2006, 11:41 AM
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pull out all the stops...dinner, flowers junk like that.....if that doesn't work....well then i think the only thing left is begging....but no one likes a begger!
22-Mar-2006, 11:42 AM
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besides.....sometimes i think the ladies are more confusing then they think we are! lol
22-Mar-2006, 11:44 AM
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i was thinking of taking her out, but thats kinda like saying sorry
and sorry implies i did soemthing wrong lol.
and sorry implies i did soemthing wrong lol.
22-Mar-2006, 11:46 AM
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flush it and find a next one.
22-Mar-2006, 11:46 AM
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Originally posted by hdave
what can i say to make her un-mad at me? i dont care if i have to lie or anyhting.
what can i say to make her un-mad at me? i dont care if i have to lie or anyhting.
Tell her you will take her on a trip anywhere she wants
22-Mar-2006, 11:47 AM
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Man, not so good at solving these **** myself.
I guess this is what most girls are like .. for a minute they're perfectly fine .. the next minute, they turned into another person!
And .. you trusted your girlfriend's friend .. not a smart move!
Anyways, my best bet is to do some action instead of speaking!
Get some flowers or something and get ready to hunt her down!
She can't possibly avoid you if you're right infront of her.
That's what I would do anyways, don't know if it'll work or not. Good luck!
I guess this is what most girls are like .. for a minute they're perfectly fine .. the next minute, they turned into another person!
And .. you trusted your girlfriend's friend .. not a smart move!
Anyways, my best bet is to do some action instead of speaking!
Get some flowers or something and get ready to hunt her down!
She can't possibly avoid you if you're right infront of her.
That's what I would do anyways, don't know if it'll work or not. Good luck!
22-Mar-2006, 11:47 AM
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harsh stop playing girls around man look now your getting karma
look now your getting karma
22-Mar-2006, 11:47 AM
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that's a good point you raise.....hmmm.....
sometimes it's better to just suck it up....or atleast that's what i always believe.....
sometimes it's better to just suck it up....or atleast that's what i always believe.....
22-Mar-2006, 11:52 AM
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Girls love when you buy them stuff, so go out and just buy her **** until she is happy. If you don't want to do that then you will have to out up with her bitching. Bottom line is, you should't have told her or mentioned the other girl. I recently told my gf how this other girl gave me her number and how I threw it out. But does she care? no she still considers that cheating even though I literally did nothing wrong. I was buying shoes man nothing else.
22-Mar-2006, 11:55 AM
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Originally posted by Moe_Mentum
Girls love when you buy them stuff, so go out and just buy her **** until she is happy. If you don't want to do that then you will have to out up with her bitching. Bottom line is, you should't have told her or mentioned the other girl. I recently told my gf how this other girl gave me her number and how I threw it out. But does she care? no she still considers that cheating even though I literally did nothing wrong. I was buying shoes man nothing else.
Girls love when you buy them stuff, so go out and just buy her **** until she is happy. If you don't want to do that then you will have to out up with her bitching. Bottom line is, you should't have told her or mentioned the other girl. I recently told my gf how this other girl gave me her number and how I threw it out. But does she care? no she still considers that cheating even though I literally did nothing wrong. I was buying shoes man nothing else.
anymore suggestions? i dont wanna mess things up cuz i like her and ****.
22-Mar-2006, 11:56 AM
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is this the girly-man forums?
22-Mar-2006, 11:57 AM
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how old are you?
there are plenty of girls out there..dont get caught up on one.. try the flavors!
there are plenty of girls out there..dont get caught up on one.. try the flavors!
22-Mar-2006, 11:59 AM
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hahah you guys are funny, first of all if you care that much about getting back with her you wouldnt have dealt with the other girl in the first place. Your girl feels like she's second best, why would you need to deal with another if your trying to get back with her-she doesnt feel special enough to hold your attention. She's hurt, personally I wouldnt have you back. You lied to her and your willing to lie again? So what you can come back to us in month and ask us again for help? Stop lying to her and everyone else and see how that works out for you. Do you ever think that thats whats really bothering her, that you lied to her!. And for the record not all girls love to be bought things to make up for something the guy did, or for us to forgive you. Why dont you ask her what is it that upsets her most about this situation and go from there, but you definately need to stop lying, 1 b/c your obviously not that good at it cause you got caught and 2 b/c it's not nice to lie to people, especially ppl you care about. You have to ask yourself if you did care for her and you willing to do anything to get her back, why did you lie in the first place.
PS - Girls arent that messed up.
PS - Girls arent that messed up.
22-Mar-2006, 12:00 PM
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Hey I am still considered young, but I honestly can't stand a lot of girls out there now. I am happy with my wife like gf even though she loves to steal my change and sleep like a lazy *** housecat when she comes over
22-Mar-2006, 12:01 PM
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"THAT" being the key word...they arent that messed up
22-Mar-2006, 12:03 PM
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^^^ 
22-Mar-2006, 12:04 PM
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thats why you dont get a girlfriend. Saves you money and the headaches.
If I was you, i'd start nailing the other broad again. Its your best bet
If I was you, i'd start nailing the other broad again. Its your best bet
22-Mar-2006, 12:04 PM
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if she is not secure enough to let this go, then she is not worth keeping around as a partner
there is better out there
there is better out there
