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Old 28-Apr-2004, 01:48 AM
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Sex yes No??????

Been wit my girl now for the past 2 years..things have been cool...Now it just seems shes not really in the mood that much anymore..she just like to hold/hug me wtf okk its all good to do that stuff but you know I need a real girl..should I just up my oxy dose and go with it????




Or do I sound like a ****in dick???


any help would be cool. Thx
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 01:54 AM
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Dude, sex is an important part of a relationship. Tell her you're worried by it.
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 01:55 AM
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Try something new, she might just be bored with the regular routine, spice it up.
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 01:57 AM
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wait till ur married
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 02:18 AM
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tell her to start banging or you'll tap her sister
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 02:29 AM
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She's getting it elsewhere........
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She's getting it elsewhere........
Sorry to say he might be right, time to do some detective work.
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 02:53 AM
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LOL ==Trust me bro she is not getin it anywhere eles.

Haaaaaah I wish she had a sister.
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 04:20 AM
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her mother is the next option HAHa
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 05:42 AM
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or her best friend....
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 06:20 AM
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thats normal.....well...it better be...or else! lol...

i agree that it is important, but its not the most important thing....

the theory of her getting it elsewhere is a probability, but you know your grl better than anyone here, so you have to decided that...

my advice, dont give her so much attention....be cools about it..then she'll start to wonder why your not so into her no more...i gaurantee you that you'll get more...haha..that or she goes and get's it from another guy...j/k

i always thought of it as being put out or shut up..but..it's easier said that done.....just have a talk with her, be sincere and try to show that your really interested in her opinion.....

hope that helps...
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 07:09 AM
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give her mindblowing orgasams every time, i gaurentee she will want it more, if not 24/7.

Id go into more detail, but we must respect the forum rules Pm me if you want to know the secrets to mind blowing cunnilingus I gurentee she will worship the ground you walk on
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 07:39 AM
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Some birth control methods lower sex drive...

It could also be caused by stressful situations, what I suggest is to be attentive to her emotionally, and to appeal to the closeness of your relationship.
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 08:46 AM
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Have you ever brought up the subject? If so what was her reaction? You need to talk to her and dig deeper. I was in the same situation in high school but I blew it and dumped her. Now I totally regret it.
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sex is quite emotional for chix, sometimes they're just not in the mood for it.

depends on what you want outta the relationship, if she's a keeper, then talk about it. if she's just a girl you're pokin at the moment, then move along and leave her be.
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 09:04 AM
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boostd has some interesting advice there.... LMAO great stuff dude very informative

(Boost see how many PM's you get requesting the info)

(I didn't request the info it was sent anyways though)
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Originally posted by BoOsTd
give her mindblowing orgasams every time, i gaurentee she will want it more, if not 24/7.

Id go into more detail, but we must respect the forum rules Pm me if you want to know the secrets to mind blowing cunnilingus I gurentee she will worship the ground you walk on
well, if she's not in the mood, I don't care what you do... that won't happen
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Old 28-Apr-2004, 09:31 AM
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Originally posted by electronblue
Some birth control methods lower sex drive...

It could also be caused by stressful situations, what I suggest is to be attentive to her emotionally, and to appeal to the closeness of your relationship.
booo - who let the girl in here???
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wow..lol u guys...

maybe she's not feeling good about herself? has she been depressed lately at all? you might just have to sit and talk this one out with her *GASP* lol.. and try not to accuse her or bitch at her for it..come at it from an "i would like to understand ur situation better.." type angle. if you just accuse or what not she'll close up completely and be mad at you, i don't know you or your girl, but communication keeps things going, and as for her getting it elsewhere..after 2 years ..lol not likely, you said urself she wants to hug and hold u, if she was playin with some one else's python she wouldn't wanna hug u lol..id say talk to her and work it out

GOOD LUCK!!! ps: don't BRING THIS UP IN BED!!!!!
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Originally posted by HAPPY


booo - who let the girl in here???
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