Sex yes No??????
28-Apr-2004, 10:36 AM
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My young friend, you have much more to learn about the female species.
They think a lot, while us guys are mostly 1, 2 , 3. You know what I mean? For them to do one thing, they need to evaluate the entire situation then make a decision. Things like does he really love me? Should I be on pills or use birth control? What if I get pregnant? What if he uses me as a sex toy? Where is the love? Unless she is a village bike, she would value her body more carefully.
But sometimes, we as male just want to flush the system. But that¡¦s not to say we don¡¦t enjoy the process, nor do we use our loves solely for sex. We are just demand more. That¡¦s all. And when a woman demands, it is a huge turn on. I enjoy making love (well who doesn¡¦t?) but I totally respect my woman¡¦s decision. Can¡¦t kick the door open if the lock is on.
Sometimes, try not to think about sex all the time, or ease on the thoughts a little. I know how it is, once you taste the evil apple, you will want more. For me, at the age of 28/29, I can live without having it for sometime. I do think about it when I see my gf simply because she is so hot for me, but if she is the keeper, then what¡¦s the rush? You have got the rest of your natural life to bone her all you want. But that¡¦s not to say no sexes whatsoever. Do it maybe once a month or a bit longer. Time goes by quickly and you won¡¦t even notice it.
Don¡¦t speculate too much about her private life. Trust is the key in all relationships. If you worry, talk it out. That¡¦s how my gf and I got our points across to one another. BUT, from a pass experience, one of my ex had an affair while going out with me. The sexes seemed a little cold. Still wild but something didn¡¦t feel right. So I am not ruling out all possibilities, but the key is not to think about it. Talk with her.
So the moral of the story is:
Jerk off is our second nature. You only think like a woman for less than 10 minutes after you ejaculate. You can jerk off faster than dropping the kids off at the pool so you can virtually do it just about anywhere as long as there is a door hiding you behind. If you can¡¦t get it, do it yourself.
They think a lot, while us guys are mostly 1, 2 , 3. You know what I mean? For them to do one thing, they need to evaluate the entire situation then make a decision. Things like does he really love me? Should I be on pills or use birth control? What if I get pregnant? What if he uses me as a sex toy? Where is the love? Unless she is a village bike, she would value her body more carefully.
But sometimes, we as male just want to flush the system. But that¡¦s not to say we don¡¦t enjoy the process, nor do we use our loves solely for sex. We are just demand more. That¡¦s all. And when a woman demands, it is a huge turn on. I enjoy making love (well who doesn¡¦t?) but I totally respect my woman¡¦s decision. Can¡¦t kick the door open if the lock is on.
Sometimes, try not to think about sex all the time, or ease on the thoughts a little. I know how it is, once you taste the evil apple, you will want more. For me, at the age of 28/29, I can live without having it for sometime. I do think about it when I see my gf simply because she is so hot for me, but if she is the keeper, then what¡¦s the rush? You have got the rest of your natural life to bone her all you want. But that¡¦s not to say no sexes whatsoever. Do it maybe once a month or a bit longer. Time goes by quickly and you won¡¦t even notice it.
Don¡¦t speculate too much about her private life. Trust is the key in all relationships. If you worry, talk it out. That¡¦s how my gf and I got our points across to one another. BUT, from a pass experience, one of my ex had an affair while going out with me. The sexes seemed a little cold. Still wild but something didn¡¦t feel right. So I am not ruling out all possibilities, but the key is not to think about it. Talk with her.
So the moral of the story is:
Jerk off is our second nature. You only think like a woman for less than 10 minutes after you ejaculate. You can jerk off faster than dropping the kids off at the pool so you can virtually do it just about anywhere as long as there is a door hiding you behind. If you can¡¦t get it, do it yourself.
28-Apr-2004, 10:49 AM
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it's normal man...me and my gf did it everytime we had a chance when we first started dating...3 years later, we don't do it that often anymore...
28-Apr-2004, 11:30 AM
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cuz u get used to it..and then it just becomes routine...of course it ain't gonna be the same as the beginning..cuz it was something fresh...i agree experiment..role play or something.. 
28-Apr-2004, 12:12 PM
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The three "A's"....attention, affection, appreciation.
Make sure you've covered all these bases.
Make sure you've covered all these bases.
28-Apr-2004, 12:27 PM
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spice up the relationship do new **** with her.
28-Apr-2004, 12:28 PM
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Jemes is such a gentleman, if I were a woman or a gay, I would jump all over him in an heartbeat...
*ahem*
*ahem*
28-Apr-2004, 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by Nova_Dust
Jemes is such a gentleman, if I were a woman or a gay, I would jump all over him in an heartbeat...
*ahem*
Jemes is such a gentleman, if I were a woman or a gay, I would jump all over him in an heartbeat...
*ahem*
James is tooooooooooo nice IMO....
28-Apr-2004, 12:43 PM
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the three a's, attention, affection, and ****, haha
28-Apr-2004, 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by dmacbo
the three a's, attention, affection, and ****, haha
the three a's, attention, affection, and ****, haha
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3 A's: attention, affection, & A 3rd person
28-Apr-2004, 01:06 PM
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Well thx for all the help guys...I have done everything for this girl..Im one of them nice guys that gets ****ed in the end somtimes I think.
She says im only happy with her when she gives me Sex...I think thats really ****ed up and not true.
bang her in the ***??? ha hay right......she wont even suck my thing
WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFF////////////////////////////////
Man I think i might just back off for a bit.
She says im only happy with her when she gives me Sex...I think thats really ****ed up and not true.
bang her in the ***??? ha hay right......she wont even suck my thing
WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFF////////////////////////////////
Man I think i might just back off for a bit.
28-Apr-2004, 01:09 PM
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thats the problem...no head!
28-Apr-2004, 01:10 PM
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Originally posted by john o
Well thx for all the help guys...I have done everything for this girl..Im one of them nice guys that gets ****ed in the end somtimes I think.
She says im only happy with her when she gives me Sex...I think thats really ****ed up and not true.
bang her in the ***??? ha hay right......she wont even suck my thing
WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFF////////////////////////////////
Man I think i might just back off for a bit.
Well thx for all the help guys...I have done everything for this girl..Im one of them nice guys that gets ****ed in the end somtimes I think.
She says im only happy with her when she gives me Sex...I think thats really ****ed up and not true.
bang her in the ***??? ha hay right......she wont even suck my thing
WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFF////////////////////////////////
Man I think i might just back off for a bit.
only happy when she gives you sex ...wow...time for that talk
yikes
good luck:
28-Apr-2004, 01:12 PM
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That's the problem with relationships, everyone has their idea of how it's suppose to go.......she wants this.......he wants that.........
Truth of the matter is, we all work hard at our jobs, playing sports, making friends, on our cars, but the one thing that we don't work on nearly enough is our relationships with our signifigant other..........me included.
Nuff said!
Truth of the matter is, we all work hard at our jobs, playing sports, making friends, on our cars, but the one thing that we don't work on nearly enough is our relationships with our signifigant other..........me included.
Nuff said!
28-Apr-2004, 01:22 PM
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how old is your girlfriend john o?
28-Apr-2004, 01:23 PM
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she won't even give you head, that sucks man, next time she wants you to do something for her, just flat out refuse, sounds like u guys got some issues to sort out
28-Apr-2004, 01:27 PM
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im 23 she Is 21
Yes and she has her 1.10ct ring soooo ///////////
Yes and she has her 1.10ct ring soooo ///////////
28-Apr-2004, 01:27 PM
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Sounds like a couple i know.....hahahaha my friend....has a problem similar kinda......he will do what he can to make his g/f happy.....and in return, he gets nothing......hahahha it'z rather funny....i dunno why he'z still with her.......relationships are 50/50 sometimes a guy should push it further to 60/40 so the girl feels i dunno........but hahaha she'z not givin anything....man.....i'd say just romance the **** outta her, she'll want it after a night of sex'in her up aka romanceing just right. . .
28-Apr-2004, 01:33 PM
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yep yep she says my car is geting in the way lol what a joke.
28-Apr-2004, 01:37 PM
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well with a location in your profile says "in my car" I can see why ...
time to ditch the car and spend more time with her
time to ditch the car and spend more time with her
