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Old 03-Feb-2003, 03:58 PM
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Unhappy Split-up

I hate to bring a bad mood to this forum but After 2 years of marriage my wife an I are splitting up.

We just had a beautiful baby girl and I thought our worries were over. I was wrong, financial problems and some other things have caused us to stay away from each other. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

Sell the house, the car, this ******' sucks.(sorry for the lingo)

I'm not sure how it's going to work out with the kids. I hate to put them through this ****.

Sorry ppl.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:02 PM
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Go talk to a counsolor. It may help. Sorry to hear what happened/happening.

Sometimes you need a person from the outside to give you two a different perspective.

It does help.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:03 PM
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Thats about the worst thing I've heard in a long time. I'm so sorry to hear about things like this. I hope you can work things out.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:09 PM
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Sorry to hear about your situation. All I can say is don't give up.
 
Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:10 PM
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been there,
done that
I even had a t-shirt made to commemerate the event.....

sorry to make a joke about it.... but i feel your pain, i went through that in spring

i can tell you this... i would have had a really hard time going through it had it not been for a lot of the members on this board
(Ray, El, Bern, Al, jeff, michelle and everyone else)

so let us know if you need anything.... we're here for you
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:12 PM
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Sorry to here ....
I agree that you may need someone impartial
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by cosmic
been there,
done that
I even had a t-shirt made to commemerate the event.....

sorry to make a joke about it.... but i feel your pain, i went through that in spring

i can tell you this... i would have had a really hard time going through it had it not been for a lot of the members on this board
(Ray, El, Bern, Al, jeff, michelle and everyone else)

so let us know if you need anything.... we're here for you
And Smirnoff Ice.
 
Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:17 PM
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Thanks, I knew I could turn to you guys in times like this. I wish I went to more meets so I could get to know everyone better.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:24 PM
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Sorry to hear about this tragic news
Hope everything goes well
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:28 PM
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Originally posted by Cantonagod

And Smirnoff Ice.
lots of it
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:39 PM
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Originally posted by cosmic
been there,
done that
I even had a t-shirt made to commemerate the event.....

sorry to make a joke about it.... but i feel your pain, i went through that in spring

i can tell you this... i would have had a really hard time going through it had it not been for a lot of the members on this board
(Ray, El, Bern, Al, jeff, michelle and everyone else)

so let us know if you need anything.... we're here for you
HEY Jon I'm rally hurt. all I can say is I'm Sad
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:44 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your situation! I highly recommend a Counsellor, it will help the communication between your wife and yourself, and that is the best thing you can do for your children (whether the marriage ends up working or not).

I really do understand how stressful situations like finances, or something else can cause deterioration in a relationship.

Just remember you do not have to keep your feelings inside, friends are always good to have now.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:45 PM
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man Joe, that really sucks to hear that I hope things turn around for you and you two work it out.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:51 PM
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Sorry Junior, I know you did a lot to try to stay together, like skimp out on some mods to buy ice for her finger. It's things like this that she ought to remember. Don't worry, you need a girl that's around for the good and the bad, not just when the money is good. I hope she smartens up, and you work things out (esp for your kid), or if not, I hope you find better than a good-time girl.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:52 PM
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man, im sorry to hear that....like what everyone said...get some counselling...hope things goes well
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by WNT_2_Go_Fast


HEY Jon I'm rally hurt. all I can say is I'm Sad

AND ESPECIALLY Rich he was there to always put a smile on my face and to make me feel loved
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 05:04 PM
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man junior: i don't know you, but sorry to hear! like all have said, get an impartial party in, it sometimes helps. best of luck bro, and yea, look out for the kids!

jon: daim yo... i never knew you were married?????
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 05:14 PM
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Sorry to hear that man, I think we need to start a Smirnoff Ice fund for times like these.
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Old 03-Feb-2003, 10:09 PM
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Want some bubble tea? :thumbsup: Dont worry, you will be always in the positive. For sure get some counselling if you think it is needed..Remember too always have your head up high...L8z..dude..:
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Sorry to hear that, Joe.

But just remember, whatever happens, happens for a reason.

I'm sure everything will work out for the better, bro!

If you wanna talk at any time, drop me a line/email/instant message.
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