Thinking of moving
26-Sep-2005, 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by Gutro
YA.....It's making more sense to stay at home. Don't have a gf to pay for, although would like one LMAO! They're expensive too though (sorry ladies...but it's true
). The truth is, I hate bringin a new girl home and be like yeah...I still live with my parents LOL. Like Brian said....I'm gonna be the new star on "getting your *** kicked out by your parents!!!" LMAO! Hey...at least TV pays...right???
YA.....It's making more sense to stay at home. Don't have a gf to pay for, although would like one LMAO! They're expensive too though (sorry ladies...but it's true
). The truth is, I hate bringin a new girl home and be like yeah...I still live with my parents LOL. Like Brian said....I'm gonna be the new star on "getting your *** kicked out by your parents!!!" LMAO! Hey...at least TV pays...right???
this is a good thing right here. Since you're single you can go on the hunt for a successful woman...something like a doctor or lawyer would be good. Pay off your debt, move in with her, have a kid, quit your job...and bam! you're now a stay at home dad with time to kill. At this point you continue to mod your car and not worry about your job or financial woes.
and there we have it, you now have a third option.
26-Sep-2005, 05:00 PM
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If you carry debt, have little to no savings, but still wish to mod your car and leech off of your parents, that's a no no.
I can move out any moment I want. But I rather pay my parents some money and save at the same time. I am the only child, and I love my parents. I don't understand why kids want to move out so eagerly, maybe their parents don't want them home. But we get along quite well. Lucky me I guess.
I can move out any moment I want. But I rather pay my parents some money and save at the same time. I am the only child, and I love my parents. I don't understand why kids want to move out so eagerly, maybe their parents don't want them home. But we get along quite well. Lucky me I guess.
26-Sep-2005, 05:00 PM
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i have 4 bankaccounts: 1 for my future home, 1 for my car, 1 for my retirement and 1 where my loan and stuff get transferred to, and from the i transfer amounts of money on my other accounts.
26-Sep-2005, 05:03 PM
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I have too much debt...lets just say I could probably buy a new base civic....maybe add a couple extras on to it.
And women are expensive and I envy you for finding a cheap one LOL
I like that idea. Anythign I do to my car now will only cost me no more than 50 bucks. I WAS going to get a cold air intake, strut bacr, new CF dash trim and more CF vinyl on my a-pilars and door handles, but all that costs too much and I'm just going to wait. All I'm doing now is a Flip Flop Trunk (max $15) and new lights for my cluster (maybe another $15). I'm doing my entire car with an interior/exterior LED kit but it's free....my own developement.
I think I need a second job...that couldn't hurt. Anybody's work hiring? I can do practically anything and if I can't I learn quick. Weekends and some evenings only please. I work 7-3:30 mon- Fri.
And women are expensive and I envy you for finding a cheap one LOL
I like that idea. Anythign I do to my car now will only cost me no more than 50 bucks. I WAS going to get a cold air intake, strut bacr, new CF dash trim and more CF vinyl on my a-pilars and door handles, but all that costs too much and I'm just going to wait. All I'm doing now is a Flip Flop Trunk (max $15) and new lights for my cluster (maybe another $15). I'm doing my entire car with an interior/exterior LED kit but it's free....my own developement.
I think I need a second job...that couldn't hurt. Anybody's work hiring? I can do practically anything and if I can't I learn quick. Weekends and some evenings only please. I work 7-3:30 mon- Fri.
26-Sep-2005, 05:05 PM
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Originally posted by stock94block
this is a good thing right here. Since you're single you can go on the hunt for a successful woman...something like a doctor or lawyer would be good. Pay off your debt, move in with her, have a kid, quit your job...and bam! you're now a stay at home dad with time to kill. At this point you continue to mod your car and not worry about your job or financial woes.
and there we have it, you now have a third option.
this is a good thing right here. Since you're single you can go on the hunt for a successful woman...something like a doctor or lawyer would be good. Pay off your debt, move in with her, have a kid, quit your job...and bam! you're now a stay at home dad with time to kill. At this point you continue to mod your car and not worry about your job or financial woes.
and there we have it, you now have a third option.
26-Sep-2005, 08:38 PM
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lol.. gutro.. i think ur kinda ****ed really ..
hahah j/k man.. erm dunno what to tell yah.. i live on my own.. and can still mod my car.. um im in debt hard core.. dont matter..
just save up some cash and move out budget urself .. put alittle away for ur car every pay check and once u get enough to buy somthing do it or at least ull have that extra cash to pay a bill..
i never could stand my parents.. been on my own since i was 18.. so cant tell ya much..
get a cheap apt.. or save some cash for a house or condo.. and then see from there..
and dont give us that girls are expensive lol.. they are if u let them ( no pun)
loudsubz has a point.. for once.. lol
hahah j/k man.. erm dunno what to tell yah.. i live on my own.. and can still mod my car.. um im in debt hard core.. dont matter..
just save up some cash and move out budget urself .. put alittle away for ur car every pay check and once u get enough to buy somthing do it or at least ull have that extra cash to pay a bill..
i never could stand my parents.. been on my own since i was 18.. so cant tell ya much..
get a cheap apt.. or save some cash for a house or condo.. and then see from there..
and dont give us that girls are expensive lol.. they are if u let them ( no pun)
loudsubz has a point.. for once.. lol
26-Sep-2005, 08:39 PM
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gutro i got the cf vynl.. u can have it bro..
26-Sep-2005, 09:16 PM
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Originally posted by Silent Si
loudsubz has a point.. for once.. lol
loudsubz has a point.. for once.. lol
26-Sep-2005, 09:23 PM
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Thanks for the vynil Rick...I can really use it! Once again...matt has a point...sorry Rick LOL
Bro...can't wait till you come back! It's been so quiet without you around...I feel like I'm the only hyper one LOL I just can't do it like you LOL
Bro...can't wait till you come back! It's been so quiet without you around...I feel like I'm the only hyper one LOL I just can't do it like you LOL
26-Sep-2005, 09:31 PM
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Gutro: just look on the bright side, at least your family is letting you stay with them. You could be in a far worse situation, so it can only get better from here on out bud. Good luck.
26-Sep-2005, 09:40 PM
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tru tru.....hey....thanks for all the advise guys! I really apreciate the help from the TCC family!
26-Sep-2005, 09:48 PM
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were on your side at TCC, its like that Dasani water commercial, where we purify it 5 steps... well not really but something like that lol
26-Sep-2005, 09:50 PM
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bah girls are expensive who the ****s buys there girlfriend a 150 dollar necklace with a heart.. i'm 17 by the way.. cause I felt like buying something?
I'm just messed...
I'm just messed...
26-Sep-2005, 09:56 PM
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Carefull...that's where it all started for me.....Do you want to end up like me? Living with mom and dad at 24 with your own car (yeah) but with enough debt that would cover the cost of a new car or downpayment on a house?
I'm tellin ya...be carefull spending that much on a girl! LOL
This is all coming from experience LOL. My Ex raped me (in $$$ terms) LOL
I'm tellin ya...be carefull spending that much on a girl! LOL
This is all coming from experience LOL. My Ex raped me (in $$$ terms) LOL
26-Sep-2005, 10:07 PM
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stay home and save, that's kind of how i'm like right now....i have TONS of bills to pay for every month :cry:
26-Sep-2005, 10:09 PM
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paul man stay home for couple more years save up as much as you can and pay off your debts. once you clear that up then move out with saved up money.
cus you can mod cars all your life no big deal, but you only get few chances of getting your own place.
cus you can mod cars all your life no big deal, but you only get few chances of getting your own place.
26-Sep-2005, 10:12 PM
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Tru.....hey I saw you on Bailey by the VW building at like 220...well....I heard you first and then you drove by goin towards pick...I was headin into Ajax
26-Sep-2005, 11:41 PM
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My ex also gave me some hard time as far as money goes. Left me and also left me some debt to pay which she owned. I knew I would never get that money back so I sucked it up, and paid it all.
We all have our stories. Life ain't what it seems to be but don't worry Paul, look forward, not backwards. Having debts is a fact, now you need a solution. I walked out of debt and I have some now but I know how to manage it and in a way, paying for debt is like spending money, you just spent the future money but at the same time, you need to know how much you can afford monthly. Paying back minimum is never good enough, that's what you get charged big time.
I would love to give you some advise. If you like to talk about it in person at the meet, I don't mind at all. Just offering some personal experience. It worked for me, it might just work for you.
We all have our stories. Life ain't what it seems to be but don't worry Paul, look forward, not backwards. Having debts is a fact, now you need a solution. I walked out of debt and I have some now but I know how to manage it and in a way, paying for debt is like spending money, you just spent the future money but at the same time, you need to know how much you can afford monthly. Paying back minimum is never good enough, that's what you get charged big time.
I would love to give you some advise. If you like to talk about it in person at the meet, I don't mind at all. Just offering some personal experience. It worked for me, it might just work for you.
26-Sep-2005, 11:55 PM
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lol yea i was there to renew my license .
oh btw my last 2 ex gf no money prob what so ever. last one works at GM and actually she always want to spent money for my stuff lol, and girl before that wasnt demanding at all simple girl.
PS: lol ppl always hear me first
.oh btw my last 2 ex gf no money prob what so ever. last one works at GM and actually she always want to spent money for my stuff lol, and girl before that wasnt demanding at all simple girl.
PS: lol ppl always hear me first
27-Sep-2005, 12:29 AM
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No offense man but I'm the king of all debt 
First off what kind of car do you drive? Is it that 2005 civic coupe in your avatar? Thats an expensive car for someone who is posting about debt
Post up what type of loans you have are they lines of credit or credit cards? Or is the car leased? If you bought that car or you are financing it I would put it in the trader tommorow and I'm sure that would give you some breathing room.
And what did this chick take you for did you like buy her **** and she took off or what I bet you co-signed a credit card with her
First off what kind of car do you drive? Is it that 2005 civic coupe in your avatar? Thats an expensive car for someone who is posting about debt
Post up what type of loans you have are they lines of credit or credit cards? Or is the car leased? If you bought that car or you are financing it I would put it in the trader tommorow and I'm sure that would give you some breathing room.
And what did this chick take you for did you like buy her **** and she took off or what
I bet you co-signed a credit card with her
