... Tuesday's Dilemma ...
28-Nov-2006, 10:44 AM
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... Tuesday's Dilemma ...
arite so here it is ... and ill try to make it as condenced as possible.....
so there is this bartender that ive been talkin to a bit for about a month .. she works at one of my regular lounges i goto ...
i think shes hella cute .. and she recipricates the feeling .... we talk whenever i go in and occasionally go outside for converstaion when inside gets to hectic for her ...
so one of the first things that i was able to determine was that indeed she had a BF .. HOWEVER ! she's like "its a new thing and i wish you had approached me about this when we first met" ...now im not the kinna guy whos usually into talkin to / pickin up bartenders cause its just a cliche thing to do ... so ist just been friendly talk with the odd sexual/ "im interested" comments ...& shes always feeding me free drinks when i come in so i just roll with it ....
so the dilemma ...
do i persue this as a possible "Ting" or do i just play it cool and keep her as a friend till her **** hits the fan ?
is it wrong to take a nexx mans girl if shes obviously interested ?
Discuss ...
so there is this bartender that ive been talkin to a bit for about a month .. she works at one of my regular lounges i goto ...
i think shes hella cute .. and she recipricates the feeling .... we talk whenever i go in and occasionally go outside for converstaion when inside gets to hectic for her ...
so one of the first things that i was able to determine was that indeed she had a BF .. HOWEVER ! she's like "its a new thing and i wish you had approached me about this when we first met" ...now im not the kinna guy whos usually into talkin to / pickin up bartenders cause its just a cliche thing to do ... so ist just been friendly talk with the odd sexual/ "im interested" comments ...& shes always feeding me free drinks when i come in so i just roll with it ....
so the dilemma ...
do i persue this as a possible "Ting" or do i just play it cool and keep her as a friend till her **** hits the fan ?
is it wrong to take a nexx mans girl if shes obviously interested ?
Discuss ...
28-Nov-2006, 10:46 AM
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if you dont know the guy then there isn't any problem......just make sure that she is done with him cuz u dont wanna found out later she never broke it off with him.....
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Trust, I just did it ! LOL
28-Nov-2006, 10:47 AM
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hmmm im not sure if im interested in a logn term thing .. thats the problem lol .. if she doesnt break it off with him i could care less ... as u said i dont know the guy so my 1st instinct is screw that .. show her some attention and she wouldnt be out lookin at other guys ....
i might have to give it a shot man .. i have NOTHING to lose lol ..
i might have to give it a shot man .. i have NOTHING to lose lol ..
28-Nov-2006, 11:07 AM
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well if you just wanna get in there.....then go.....!
But if she wants the relationship or w.e, then make sure you tell her no strings attached. Dont wanna have a girl bugging you all the time and in the end breaking her heart, yah know?
But if she wants the relationship or w.e, then make sure you tell her no strings attached. Dont wanna have a girl bugging you all the time and in the end breaking her heart, yah know?
28-Nov-2006, 11:10 AM
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Wait it out, till shes ready for a new BF.
Id say stay with her as friends for now.
Id say stay with her as friends for now.
28-Nov-2006, 11:12 AM
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But her having a BF shouldnt stop you from showing her how "nice" you are.
28-Nov-2006, 11:13 AM
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I would say ask her out ...the worst she could say is no and then say well if things don't work give me a shout and then move on but stay friends
28-Nov-2006, 11:27 AM
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yea lol ... i jsut talked to her ... i asked her out for a coffee or something just to talk some more and whatnot ...
but yea she always goes on how "super nice" i am so im gettin there lol ....
but yea she always goes on how "super nice" i am so im gettin there lol ....
28-Nov-2006, 11:29 AM
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get her prego
28-Nov-2006, 11:34 AM
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Originally posted by JoonyaSI
yea lol ... i jsut talked to her ... i asked her out for a coffee or something just to talk some more and whatnot ...
but yea she always goes on how "super nice" i am so im gettin there lol ....
yea lol ... i jsut talked to her ... i asked her out for a coffee or something just to talk some more and whatnot ...
but yea she always goes on how "super nice" i am so im gettin there lol ....
28-Nov-2006, 11:38 AM
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ahhahhaha yea cause u know me sooooo well right neil ... pfft .. u dont even know what i look like .. dont base ish on a forum thats EMO...
28-Nov-2006, 11:40 AM
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i do know what you look like.......and I guess if you spend so much time here ......and this place is emo ...I guess you EMO too...
O'Doyle Rules my e-friend......btw just busting nuts lil man
O'Doyle Rules my e-friend......btw just busting nuts lil man
28-Nov-2006, 11:44 AM
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im only here when i need to kill time @ work ..
lil man ? no ...
O'Doyle rule is KEY !!!!!!!
i think im in love !
lil man ? no ...
O'Doyle rule is KEY !!!!!!!
i think im in love !
28-Nov-2006, 11:44 AM
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Originally posted by JoonyaSI
im only here when i need to kill time @ work ..
lil man ? no ...
O'Doyle rule is KEY !!!!!!!
i think im in love !
im only here when i need to kill time @ work ..
lil man ? no ...
O'Doyle rule is KEY !!!!!!!
i think im in love !
no you are not it is lust, but still not bad
28-Nov-2006, 11:46 AM
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yea for sure lust .. i dont ever think .. damn i wanna walk down the asile with her ...
more like damn i wonder what she would look like in my room face down *** up ...
more like damn i wonder what she would look like in my room face down *** up ...
28-Nov-2006, 11:48 AM
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love is when you still care for her after she has kicked you in the ***** .....
28-Nov-2006, 11:51 AM
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hmmmm if she kicked me in the ***** next time i seen her id prolly stilll like her ...
id be hurt .. but id still wanna tap tap tappparoo it
id be hurt .. but id still wanna tap tap tappparoo it
28-Nov-2006, 12:04 PM
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if you already went for coffee, then i would expect you're already given her ****.
28-Nov-2006, 12:05 PM
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mushroom slap ftw!
28-Nov-2006, 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by Bruce Fee
if you already went for coffee, then i would expect you're already given her ****.
if you already went for coffee, then i would expect you're already given her ****.
