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Old 18-Apr-2005, 05:18 PM
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Originally posted by Sabre
Cheating... this is a topic I know a little about... I have cheated, and I've been cheated on. So gather round ladies and gents and I will grace you with my wisdom.
man hahahaha, everytime some hot topic comes up i always wait to see what you say, its ALWAYS something hilarious or informative! nicely said bro hahaha
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 05:27 PM
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i'm too lazy to cheat. i mean, the guys come to me, but all the effort in lying and covering things up...bah...WAY too lazy for that. plus i can't lie and cheating is wrong.

i hear lots of stories bout ppl cheating after a few yrs of being married...that's prolly the one thing that scares me bout marriage...i mean, being with the same person day in and day out...must get pretty boring...it's only a matter of time b4 someone cheats. btw, married women cheat A LOT...so, it's not juss guys.
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 05:39 PM
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lol..... i wonder who was the 1st person to jerk off.... he should get a nobel prize!!
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 06:36 PM
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what i really hate is when girls make a bigger fuss if the guy cheats, even though they cheat.

my buddy one cheated on his GF with one of her good friends, as payback for her cheating ways...... she got PISSED OFF... then he was like "you cheated on me 1st.. so i figured it was ok and id get away with it." she came back with "it doesnt matter that i cheated on you.. that has nothing to do with this...i hate you you &^$%& ^%$%^ &^%^^%$ ((%#&% $#^&$##) (she pretty much called him every swear word EVER!) at that point i was lying on the couch with tears in my eyes laughing so hard.

she made it seem like her cheating was nothing at all, but him cheating on her was like hell froze over!
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 08:34 PM
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true, but it just seems like every guy i (or my friends) come into contact with is scum. i'm just wondering, what possesses you guys to cheat? not you specifically, just guys in general
easy....

the way you dress, the way you act, the way you look and the way you present yourself as a whole.


if you were wearing a low cut tank top with short skirt or shorts hell my dad would be after your ***.

its simple as that.

opposites attract.


dont tease and then expect not to be teased or drooled over.


try this for a change.
dress like a bum and look all crappy and do that for about a week and go to clubs or whatever see how many guys will pick u up then.

i would say 1/10 (10 being the amount of guys that would've picked u up if u looked dressed out etc)


i am not telling u what to wear or how to dress i am just saying its very normal for it to happen.


thing about it like this....

if u seen a guy who looks hot BUT was wearing bum clothes and was on the street (homeless) will you be attracted to him? no obvioulsy not

at the same time if u seen a guy who is all decked out look fly like shawn desman (HAHAHAH) obvioulsy you would fall for him.

now if u were in a relationship u might say oh you wouldnt go and ask him yes that may be true but you still do admit that you were "EYING" him rite? exactly.
now you might not have guts to go ask him but someone else who is in a relationship might. someone else might not like the relationship they are in or might want to explore various things you might not.

this doesnt make all guys DOGS and this certainly doesnt make it fair to the honest and hardworking guys that are here trying to please their wifey's.

matter of fact its an insult. how would you like it if i said Oh why are girls hoe's?




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Old 18-Apr-2005, 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by Team Rukus


easy....

the way you dress, the way you act, the way you look and the way you present yourself as a whole.


if you were wearing a low cut tank top with short skirt or shorts hell my dad would be after your ***.

its simple as that.

opposites attract.


dont tease and then expect not to be teased or drooled over.


try this for a change.
dress like a bum and look all crappy and do that for about a week and go to clubs or whatever see how many guys will pick u up then.

i would say 1/10 (10 being the amount of guys that would've picked u up if u looked dressed out etc)


i am not telling u what to wear or how to dress i am just saying its very normal for it to happen.


thing about it like this....

if u seen a guy who looks hot BUT was wearing bum clothes and was on the street (homeless) will you be attracted to him? no obvioulsy not

at the same time if u seen a guy who is all decked out look fly like shawn desman (HAHAHAH) obvioulsy you would fall for him.

now if u were in a relationship u might say oh you wouldnt go and ask him yes that may be true but you still do admit that you were "EYING" him rite? exactly.
now you might not have guts to go ask him but someone else who is in a relationship might. someone else might not like the relationship they are in or might want to explore various things you might not.

this doesnt make all guys DOGS and this certainly doesnt make it fair to the honest and hardworking guys that are here trying to please their wifey's.

matter of fact its an insult. how would you like it if i said Oh why are girls hoe's?




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Old 18-Apr-2005, 09:11 PM
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ok, so i kinda got in a lil trouble with u know who bout my last post. wut i MEANT ( ) to say is that it must get boring after being with the same person for yrs if they're not the right person for u or if the two of u r boring.

but we're a weird and crazy couple so, we're the exception to the rule
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 09:17 PM
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I've met you Shazza... If *ANY* guy ever got bored of you, he might as well turn in his testies because he is no longer worthy of being a man.
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 09:20 PM
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I heard Korean women are violent. Unless Ed is getting plenty of sex, I am not sure how he survived the past 6 months.
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by Sabre
I've met you Shazza... If *ANY* guy ever got bored of you, he might as well turn in his testies because he is no longer worthy of being a man.
aw shucks steve

btw charles, korean girls r indeed crazy, but violent? really? hmmmm...maybe the ones straight from the motherland. actually, i can get a lil violent, but ed seem's to enjoy it
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 10:16 PM
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Korean girls are talented, too. Smart and sassy, holy **** I say.
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 10:45 PM
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well this tread is played out but I've been away for a few weeks so...

you were at a bar which means low status males

females cheat just as much...I "knew" a girl who let's say had a bf that she was with for awhile and she told other people she loved him etc...She comes chills with me at a party next thing I know she is all over me, so naturally I gave in and went with it.

Point being females cheat to but that's life. Oh ya did these gentlemen have sex with you 2...no then it was harmless flirting. Point beign maybe they were making their gf jelious so she would put out hard that night cause it works.
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 11:02 PM
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Originally posted by dingus88

Oh ya did these gentlemen have sex with you 2...no then it was harmless flirting. Point beign maybe they were making their gf jelious so she would put out hard that night cause it works.
man, if MY bf flirted with some girl period, i'd kick him to the curb...SO LONG SUCKAH...mouahahaha ...that is...after i got my bro to beat him into a living pulp...meh, who am i kidding, i'd do the beating myself Shazza dont take no bs...i juss dont appreciate it when ppl bring drama into my life...i have MUCH better things to do with my time.
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Old 18-Apr-2005, 11:05 PM
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Sharon, please don't kick my ***.
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Old 19-Apr-2005, 12:46 AM
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Originally posted by QuiCK_TiME
i think its cos of variety. even if we are satisfied, we still wanna get with other girls just for fun. theres always your #1 (or 2) and then theres every other gurl. why not try the other flavours out before locking down into marriage?


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Old 19-Apr-2005, 12:53 AM
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Sharon, please don't kick my ***.
mine too
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Old 19-Apr-2005, 09:32 AM
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i never have nor will ever cheat... if you make the commitment with a girl and you want to go to someone else be a man step up and tell her you don't want to see her.. its stupid to cheat.. give you a bad rep
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Old 19-Apr-2005, 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by v8hunter03
i never have nor will ever cheat... if you make the commitment with a girl and you want to go to someone else be a man step up and tell her you don't want to see her.. its stupid to cheat.. give you a bad rep
I remember saying those exact same words... Things change. Things happen. Don't underestimate what depression will do to a person.
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Old 19-Apr-2005, 06:07 PM
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its only cheating if u get caught
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Old 19-Apr-2005, 07:10 PM
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well said Cynikal.Mindset :P

I think the saying "Once a player always a player is true."
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