women who want to be just friends
25-Aug-2009, 09:18 AM
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25-Aug-2009, 10:19 AM
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i have few very close female friends, known them for 7-8 years or so, i mean we fool around jokingly but nothing serious. but i never really thought of having sex with them or anything like that because that would be just weird hanging with them after that.
i mean at first i have those feelings, but then i get to know them so good, spend a lot of time with them and get so comfortable with them, that i dont even think of that stuff when i am with them.
i mean at first i have those feelings, but then i get to know them so good, spend a lot of time with them and get so comfortable with them, that i dont even think of that stuff when i am with them.
25-Aug-2009, 10:24 AM
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drunken sex is great. Morning is awkward, and you never talk about it, but you both know once u do it for the first time, its gunna happen again.
Love it......love it!
the secret just makes it THAT much better too!
Love it......love it!
the secret just makes it THAT much better too!
25-Aug-2009, 11:40 AM
#27
lol true
BUT I have quite a few male friends, some of which I have been friends with for a long time and I have developed 'feelings' for a few of them, but if my friends were ever to ask if I was interested in them I would just say no, even if that wasn't the case.
Just because a girl says “your a great guy but I don't think of you like that” doesn't mean she isn't interested. She most likely is interested. Its quite easy to catch on if a girl likes a friend, if your hanging out all the time and always talking to one another then there’s obviously more going on then just a friendship.... maybe females don’t want to jeopardize the friendship they have and its just easier to say no im not interested then letting your friend know you have feelings for him. Your not just going to approach your female friend and ask if they like you if you haven’t been given signals or some sort of sign they have feelings for you.
With the friends I have feelings for, I really wouldn’t want anything more then a friendship. The occasional flirting is fun but I enjoy just being there friend and would want nothing more. I am way to close to them to let how I feel come in the way of a friendship.
Regardless the case, you probably won’t be given a correct answer. Females are just like that
BUT I have quite a few male friends, some of which I have been friends with for a long time and I have developed 'feelings' for a few of them, but if my friends were ever to ask if I was interested in them I would just say no, even if that wasn't the case.
Just because a girl says “your a great guy but I don't think of you like that” doesn't mean she isn't interested. She most likely is interested. Its quite easy to catch on if a girl likes a friend, if your hanging out all the time and always talking to one another then there’s obviously more going on then just a friendship.... maybe females don’t want to jeopardize the friendship they have and its just easier to say no im not interested then letting your friend know you have feelings for him. Your not just going to approach your female friend and ask if they like you if you haven’t been given signals or some sort of sign they have feelings for you.
With the friends I have feelings for, I really wouldn’t want anything more then a friendship. The occasional flirting is fun but I enjoy just being there friend and would want nothing more. I am way to close to them to let how I feel come in the way of a friendship.
Regardless the case, you probably won’t be given a correct answer. Females are just like that
25-Aug-2009, 01:50 PM
#34
as if men are any better? Women think in a way that won't hurt anyones feelings... where as men just say before they think
25-Aug-2009, 01:58 PM
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lol true
BUT I have quite a few male friends, some of which I have been friends with for a long time and I have developed 'feelings' for a few of them, but if my friends were ever to ask if I was interested in them I would just say no, even if that wasn't the case.
Just because a girl says “your a great guy but I don't think of you like that” doesn't mean she isn't interested. She most likely is interested. Its quite easy to catch on if a girl likes a friend, if your hanging out all the time and always talking to one another then there’s obviously more going on then just a friendship.... maybe females don’t want to jeopardize the friendship they have and its just easier to say no im not interested then letting your friend know you have feelings for him. Your not just going to approach your female friend and ask if they like you if you haven’t been given signals or some sort of sign they have feelings for you.
With the friends I have feelings for, I really wouldn’t want anything more then a friendship. The occasional flirting is fun but I enjoy just being there friend and would want nothing more. I am way to close to them to let how I feel come in the way of a friendship.
Regardless the case, you probably won’t be given a correct answer. Females are just like that
BUT I have quite a few male friends, some of which I have been friends with for a long time and I have developed 'feelings' for a few of them, but if my friends were ever to ask if I was interested in them I would just say no, even if that wasn't the case.
Just because a girl says “your a great guy but I don't think of you like that” doesn't mean she isn't interested. She most likely is interested. Its quite easy to catch on if a girl likes a friend, if your hanging out all the time and always talking to one another then there’s obviously more going on then just a friendship.... maybe females don’t want to jeopardize the friendship they have and its just easier to say no im not interested then letting your friend know you have feelings for him. Your not just going to approach your female friend and ask if they like you if you haven’t been given signals or some sort of sign they have feelings for you.
With the friends I have feelings for, I really wouldn’t want anything more then a friendship. The occasional flirting is fun but I enjoy just being there friend and would want nothing more. I am way to close to them to let how I feel come in the way of a friendship.
Regardless the case, you probably won’t be given a correct answer. Females are just like that
And then, he isnt too impressed about it, so after work one day he goes to the local hangout, sees her younger sister (say...2yrs younger?), and she comes back to the guys place and they do it, all hot n sexy.
Then 2 weeks later, the guy goes camping with the girl (not the sister) and a bunch of other people, and they are drunk and bust down the tent doing it all night. She wakes up the next morning barely able to walk with tent poles halfway across the campsite.
1 week later that guy moves away for college and doesnt talk to her/them since.
again, this is just an example.......no truth to it
25-Aug-2009, 02:06 PM
#36
what if the guy approaches the girl and talks about his feelings for her and then she says she wants to stay friends and doesnt want the feelings to get in the way of them.
And then, he isnt too impressed about it, so after work one day he goes to the local hangout, sees her younger sister (say...2yrs younger?), and she comes back to the guys place and they do it, all hot n sexy.
Then 2 weeks later, the guy goes camping with the girl (not the sister) and a bunch of other people, and they are drunk and bust down the tent doing it all night. She wakes up the next morning barely able to walk with tent poles halfway across the campsite.
1 week later that guy moves away for college and doesnt talk to her/them since.
again, this is just an example.......no truth to it
And then, he isnt too impressed about it, so after work one day he goes to the local hangout, sees her younger sister (say...2yrs younger?), and she comes back to the guys place and they do it, all hot n sexy.
Then 2 weeks later, the guy goes camping with the girl (not the sister) and a bunch of other people, and they are drunk and bust down the tent doing it all night. She wakes up the next morning barely able to walk with tent poles halfway across the campsite.
1 week later that guy moves away for college and doesnt talk to her/them since.
again, this is just an example.......no truth to it
as for the camping situation, he was drunk so weird things happen when there’s alcohol involved
moving away to college was his smartest decision in this scenario
25-Aug-2009, 02:06 PM
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what if the guy approaches the girl and talks about his feelings for her and then she says she wants to stay friends and doesnt want the feelings to get in the way of them.
And then, he isnt too impressed about it, so after work one day he goes to the local hangout, sees her younger sister (say...2yrs younger?), and she comes back to the guys place and they do it, all hot n sexy.
Then 2 weeks later, the guy goes camping with the girl (not the sister) and a bunch of other people, and they are drunk and bust down the tent doing it all night. She wakes up the next morning barely able to walk with tent poles halfway across the campsite.
1 week later that guy moves away for college and doesnt talk to her/them since.
again, this is just an example.......no truth to it
And then, he isnt too impressed about it, so after work one day he goes to the local hangout, sees her younger sister (say...2yrs younger?), and she comes back to the guys place and they do it, all hot n sexy.
Then 2 weeks later, the guy goes camping with the girl (not the sister) and a bunch of other people, and they are drunk and bust down the tent doing it all night. She wakes up the next morning barely able to walk with tent poles halfway across the campsite.
1 week later that guy moves away for college and doesnt talk to her/them since.
again, this is just an example.......no truth to it
25-Aug-2009, 02:08 PM
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well then that guy has some serious issues that he fcuked her sister when he just opened up about liking that girl.....
as for the camping situation, he was drunk so weird things happen when there’s alcohol involved
moving away to college was his smartest decision in this scenario
as for the camping situation, he was drunk so weird things happen when there’s alcohol involved
moving away to college was his smartest decision in this scenario
i wouldn't say that guy has issues, he wasn't happy about the whole situation and needed to get laid. So the opportunity came up, and he got laid.
camping - man, he said it was the best sex he's had in a long time. She was all kinky and liked to be in control and just ride that ****.
college - it continued there (apparently), he only has had 2 sister situations since.....2x3=6.
25-Aug-2009, 02:12 PM
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and this "guy" still walks around today......he was in a relationship, that ended, and now he is always willing to give a shot at anyone within reason, but his standards have risen and keep rising.
